Relationship with FI's family ruined?

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

wanderingthoughts:  Are they all avoiding each other or just the two of you?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

 

wanderingthoughts:  People change, priorities change, and sometimes it’s just not reasonable to spend as much time with people as you use to, family or not.  The ones with children might need to spend more time on their kid’s school or activies as they grow older, and the ones without children may have different work scheduels or what not that do not allow them to hang out as much as they use to.  It happens to alot of families and friend groups as they get older.  Unless you can point to a “This, this right here is what I have done wrong,” I would just assume that people are busy.  It will probably cycle again some day to when they want to spend time together again, but I wouldn’t worry about “fixing it,” as nothing appears to be broken.

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