- 2 years ago
- Wedding: April 2015
Hello all, I have been married in the past for about 1 month. I married in a Catholic church. With my ex, which is the father of my child, previously before the marriage he left me for another women, there was cheating, online, bar hopping and violence. I took him back, but the conditon he gave me for him to return “home” was to get marry in the church. I never wanted this, at the time, I didnt even belive in the foundation of marriage. Anyhow, I went along even after I tried to stopp it, but my ex said that this was the only way to be happy? We married. I relazed that I didnt want to, spearted so I filed for divorced and divorced a yer later. He remarried 3 years after.
I began goign out, but did not officially date until about 1 year )when divorce was finalized. ANyhow, I now live with my BF, we decided we want to get married. We have been togther now 8 years. Engaged 2 years. During this time as well I accepted Jesus as my Lord and savior. I have chidlren from previous relationship. He has never been married no kids, Im divorced. I attend church, he does soemtimes with me, he considers himself Catholic, me more Christian and I guess coming from a catholica background myself, struggle with religion and tradtition. what I do know is that I dont want to have a religion but a relaitonship with god. Want to do whats right, as well as now understand marriage and want to get married. ( Also havent spoken to the church pastor about this)
Im wondering what suggestions/what you may know/ you may have about divorce remarraige, bibilcal and none bibical?