Post # 1
Did you miss me!? Probably not, because the last we talked was over a year ago. I posted the most difficult message I’ve ever written, a post about my ex fiancé leaving me clear out of the blue in 2012 with no reason, explanation, or warning before our wedding. That thread truly became my lifeline. I was working in a city alone where I knew no one, trying to survive the grief. I truly was hopeless and accepted I would never love someone or trust again, despite all of you saying otherwise. I didn’t want to go on.
I woke up this morning unable to contain my excitement to post. No, I’m not engaged (yet;), but I did* find love again. I dated countless men I won’t lie…..never would go anywhere and I felt MORE hopeless!! Four months ago I met someone who changed all that. We are so in love and want the same things in life. it is not the high high I had before, but deeper, mature, and a solid. The best part is, i met him after i had done all the things i wanted to do for myself. I now work at my dream job I always wanted. It truly has been a bizarre turn of unexpected events. Regardless of what happens, you all got me through that time, and in this moment I am so content and proud of what I was able to make of the most painful thing I’ve ever gone thRough. We do hope to get engaged sometime this summer, so I’ll check in then but wanted to say hi and thank you:)
Post # 3
@MissMelly: Congratulations! I remember reading your post way back when (after I went back and read it again), and am glad you have found happiness again. 🙂
Post # 4
I wasn’t around a year ago to see that but congratulations on finding love again! It’s always nice hearing other bee’s good news!
Post # 5
@MissMelly: I will admit that I wasn’t around when you wrote your intial thread, but I am happy to see that you’ve overcome this and have found what could be love again. However, I am most happy to see that you have found and are working at your dream job – that is in itself such a huge achievement that most people aren’t lucky enough to get. You should be proud of yourself! Kudos girl!
Post # 6
Hey! I think I wasn’t here a year ago, but I am glad you are happy again!
Post # 7
Awesome I remember you! I’m so happy to hear your doing well!
Post # 8
@MissMelly: Congrats! I remember your post and I am so happy for you.
Post # 9
@MissMelly: i dont remember u because im not on here too often but congrats im glad u found love again and did things for yourself. i went through a similar situation with my ex n thought i would never love again my fiance came along and changed everything. again happy for u and hopefully u will be engaged by the end of the summer 🙂
Post # 10
@MissMelly: I remember you well! That was a terrible thing that happened to you, and I know the Bee really kept you going.
I am so happy to hear that you have found love again and you found your dream job!
Solid, steady, more mature love, as you put it, I think is the kind one can trust. 🙂
Post # 11
@MissMelly: I wasn’t here a year ago but – you go girl!! F that old turd (I read your old thread) and move on with your new man!
I have to ask – did your ex-fiance ever talk to you again? Try to get back together? Any juicy gossip? LOL.
Post # 12
@MissMelly: I love happy updates!! It’s always hard to believe that you’ll find (usually a better) love again when you’re in the middle of heart ache – but it somehow always happens 🙂
Post # 13
- Wedding: July 2014 - Prague
This is a wonderful post! Yahooooo! I’m newish here, but I am very happy to hear things have turned out so nicely for you. 🙂
Post # 14
I remember you!
I am SO HAPPY that your life has improved so much since then! And I’m so glad you’re in a wonderful, happy, healthy relationship!
Post # 15
@MissMelly: I can’t say I remember you, but I went back and read your posts, and I have to say good for YOU! I am so happy that everythig is working out now, and you were able to find someone who appreciates you. Congrats and good luck!!
Post # 16
@MissMelly: Yay and welcome back!!! I remember the original thread. But like we all said, you’ve bounced back and look how far you’ve come. So happy that you’ve found love again 🙂 Hopefully we hear of an engagment in the future 😉