Post # 1
so I have a bit of a situation. I asked my brother’s Gf to be one of my bridesmaids. well it turns out that she is going to have surgery and doesn’t know if she will be able to be in the wedding. our wedding is only about 2 months away (7/7/11). Should I replace her so that the new BM can get her dress ordered?
Also the person I am asking to replace her is my cousin. I have already asked my cousin to help with directing guests to the guest book, etc. she was very happy to be a part of the wedding in doing that. will she feel offended if i ask her to be a bridesmaid instead?
Post # 3
If you have a close relationship w/ your cousin, I would ask. I would also pay for her dress since it was 2 months before the wedding.
Post # 4
I was a replacement BM in a wedding abt 2 weeks ago. The bride was up front with me, which I appreciated. I say go for it!
Post # 5
me and my cousin was close when we were younger. we have talked about wedding stuff via fb. I have thought about paying for part of the dress. She doesn’t have to help with bridal shower or anuthing like that. My MOH and mom is taking care of that since it will be a small bridal shower.