Replacing Emcee :(

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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10219 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Aaaah Hon, (( HUGS )) to you…

It sucks when things we “wish for” cannot be an reality when it comes to Family…

Especially when it is something like a Wedding which is such a “significant” family event

It does sound tho like YOU’VE GOT THIS… with a decent back up plan

So that is a relief

Hang in there… altho the Wedding itself is important… in reality… it is just one day out of your whole life with your Sweetie

And the Ceremony is waaay more important… particularly the part where JUST THE 2 OF YOU will exchange your Vows

In the end that is all that matters (and the largest portion of what you’ll remember, look back on for the next many decades)

This too shall pass.

 

Post # 4
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1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

@chercee:  yes, it sucks. sib relationships are so hard. about 1-2 years back my sis and i didn’t speak for over a year (we are very close so this was crazy). I thought it might have been the end, but from rock bottom the only place to go is up! since that has healed up our relationship has been a lot lot lot better than it was then and leading up to then. really i think the fall out was necessary to reset what was going on with us, as it is truly so much better now. so just wanted to say there is hope! even the shittiest of sibling scenario can come around again. i’m sorry the timing isn’t working for your wedding, but there is hope for the future. since you’ve tried what you can now, let this time with him pass and focus on the positives in your life now- like your FI and your wedding! as you’re saying yourself, you can’t force it w the brother. it might be time to take your focus off it now and let some time pass, and things could be a lot better down the road.

Post # 6
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1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

@chercee:  my not speaking to my sister was honestly in part to teach her a lesson, the lesson of i won’t stand for this. whatever it was, it worked.

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