Resentful and just need to pour my heart out to someone!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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9533 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’d get m ass out of that relationship. It soudns like his true colors are shining through, and those aren’t colors that fit my palette. He’s giveyou plenty of reasons to go. So do it!

Post # 4
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9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

The end is here.  Leave him and don’t look back!

Post # 5
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686 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yeah i’m sorry I’m usually not the type to tell someone to leave their spouse but i think it’s the only option in this case. He sounds too young and immature to even think about getting married. You said you’re both young, go out and find someone who will treat you right, you deserve better than this.

Post # 6
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2878 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

NOPE.  I’d leave.  Like, this second.  Your job situation sucks, but don’t stay in this sh*tty relationship just because of that!!

Post # 7
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233 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@ForeverMrsB: Hey Dear! It’s time to start looking for a new job! You sound like his family’s house help. What’s even worse is that he didn’t even defend you in front of his family. When a woman marries, she needs to marry a MAN, not a boy. A man is one who will take care of you physically, mentally, emotionally and socially…he should also be able to handle the finances without your help! Your boy does not meet the qualifications of husband material…I’m sure you already know what to do.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You summed it up when you said you’re not happy with him and you’re not happy with yourself.  If you’re not happy with yourself you need to do something because you are the only person you can control.  Tell him it’s over, go to work with your head held high and be the bigger person.  It’s hard to admit that it’s over but it’s over and I’m not sure from your story if it ever even began for this guy.  It really sounds like a one-sided relationship.

Post # 9
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289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@ForeverMrsB:  Get out of there immedately. He is a cheater and it sounds as if he only commits to you when you try to leave him. Maybe it will be a little awkward at work, but it’s all for the best and dealing with the tension is better than staying in a relationship where you’re utterly miserable. If his mom starts to be really mean to you then report it to a supervisor or Human Resorces. 

Post # 10
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325 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

When someone shows your their true colors, believe them. You’re being used. Get out of that relationship asap!

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

His buying the ring of your dreams does not magically fix the fact that he’s cheated on you MULTIPLE TIMES and you can’t trust him.  It doesn’t change the fact that he treats you poorly and resents you.  You said you’re younger – that’s great, you have plenty of time to meet someone who doesn’t cheat on you and make you feel like crap!

 

As for dealing with his mom, your breaking up with him should not change your work status.  It might make things awkward, but if you lose your job over it that can be wrongful termination.  Behave respectfully towards his mom, and if she makes life tough for you, document it.  Hopefully she’s grown up enough to stay out of your guys’ relationship.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

He’s cheated on you, doesn’t show affection, and he hides your future plans like he’s ashamed of them. Leave him and find somebody who will appreciate you. Hugs!  

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

Honestly, I didn’t even get all the way through your post before my mind was screaming “LEAVE HIM”.

Get out now – this man has no respect for you.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

You clearly have a lot of love to give and you deserve a man who appreciates that and shows in his actions that he is trustworthy.   Cycles of emotional anguish are not signs of a healthy relationship.  

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m with the pp’s….don’t go back.

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