(Closed) Resolution: My Let It Go list…

posted 5 years ago in Holidays
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think those are excellent and healthy resolutions for you.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Those are awesome resolutions. 

Here are mine:

1. Start my new job on the 21st and not be afraid. I’m tired of feeling intimindated at work and it’s time that I have more confidence.

2. Treat my husband the way he treats me. We have a great relationship, but lately I’ve been moody and lashing out at him, and I would hate if he did it to me.

3. Be a happier and more upbeat person. Most of the time I’m pretty quiet and keep to myself, but I’m ready to be more outgoing and be perceived as a positive and excited person.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Sunshine09:  Yours are great! You are very strong (:

Heres mine:

I will let go of…

My wedding photographers mistake. She deleted pictures of one side of the family I rarley get to see. I was so angry but realized that I have the memories. Yes pictures would have been nice but what’s done is done.

 

My resentment for my DH about money. This is the only thing we ever fight about and it has been a strain in our relationship/marriage. This is a new year and when I said for better or worse I meant it. I work more then him and I feel sometimes he isn’t worth my time because he doesn’t make enough money as I do. I’ve learned though that not everything is equal. I love him and will stand by him. Instead of resenting him I am helping him find a better job(:

 

My feelings towards a girl I barley knew but almost tore my relationship apart. Her and my DH had a relationship for a couple months. It took me forever to even trust DH again (This happened two years ago.) I haven’t seen this girl in almost a year. I avoid her like the plague. She now goes to my church were I serve. I decided I will not let her interfer with my relationship with the man upstairs. I saw her for the first time in about a year a couple days ago. I bawled my eyes out and walked away. Floods of emotions came and it was overwhelming but I need to let go and let GOD with her.

 

I am so ready for 2013 and what it has instore for my family and I.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

This is an excellent idea.

I will let go of:

-how people feel about my relationship with my SO

I have experienced so much negativity because we’re young (21 and 22) and have already planned to get married. I just don’t care what other people think anymore; it’s our decision and it’s made.

-things that are not my problem.

I have a tendancy to micromanage things that I’m no longer involved in/shouldn’t concern myself with, and I stretch myself way too thin even though I often do not get thanked/acknowledged for it.

Really that’s basically it.

It’s also my last semester at university so that should make things easier, lol.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I love this idea, I often feel like there are things I am holding on to that are dragging me down.  I will let go of…

Anger at a coworker

When my FI and I got engaged, I excitedly told my coworkers the big news, one of which is a girl near my age who seemed very excited and wanted to know all the details.  I found out the next day that after I left, the excited coworker spun all the details I shared of our engagement in a mean, negative way to some of the other people in my office.  I was crushed that someone would take something wonderful and turn it against me.  But I need to let go, because at the end of the day it’s about her own insecurities, and isn’t my problem.

I feel better already!

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