(Closed) responsibilities of a personal attendant

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2263 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

i have no idea. usually one expects all that ^^ out of a bridesmaid. I would ask her but maybe she just needs extra hands to help on that day, like running and getting more bobby pins, etc. Sorry I can’t be of more help! 

Post # 4
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Like MisssPumpkin says: I think you would be hands on for that day.

Post # 5
166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

1. Do I go to the bachlerette party? (I was not invited)

No, not if you’re not invited.

2.  Do I go to the groom’s supper?

If you’re invited to that.  I’m not sure exactly what that is, though.  Is it usually a stag event?


3. Am I suppose to suggest things? ex. Flower arrangements, Bridesmaid dresses



4. Do I go to the rehearsal dinner?

You’ll probably be invited to that by virtue of being the groom’s sister.


5. What do I wear? (She has not said anything)

Whatever occasion-appropriate attire you want!


6. Am I suppose to get her permission on what I wear?

I should hope not.  She’s already getting you to do a day-of coordinator’s job for free.

Post # 6
1763 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I commented on your other thread too and it sounds like you are getting caught up in what one is “supposed to do”. Just ask your brother and his fiance directly what your role should be and all of these questions you asked. There really are no set rules these days.

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