"Revenge Porn" and Victim Blaming

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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2884 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

i think it should have been made illegal to post sexually explicit videos/pics of someone without their permission a looooooong time ago. its a real dickhead move

i think its horrendous that people judge the victim 🙁

Post # 4
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898 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

@AnonymousCupcake:  I had a really disturbing ex right around the time I turned 18 that was a photographer and while we were dating I let him have a few naked photos of myself for his enjoyment. Well, we ended up breaking up because despite my living in his place with no car and no access to the outside world beside a computer, he hacked my email and found emails to an old boyfriend asking how he was doing and he got so enraged he admitted he’d done it, so I left because he was already controlling and abusive enough.

Fast forward 3+ years and some random person messages me on FB and asks if I’m aware that my name and info and naked photos are on this one website, which I WAS NOT AWARE. I got look and it’s the same photos from that prick, some of them I wasn’t even 18 yet in, and he had my first and last name on there AND the city I lived in. I have a REALLY unique name (hence how the person found me to tell me) I felt so horrible about it! I contacted the police and they had the website taken down because of my under age photos, but of course it’s come back and my pics are still there. How is it MY fault that my perverted asshole ex had a vendetta against me years later? Those photos were for his eyes only.. ugh. It still makes me sick to think about 🙁

Post # 6
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898 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

@AnonymousCupcake:  He was seriously the most disturbing guy I’ve ever met. I can’t believe I was dumb enough to date him.. you do stupid things when you’re vulnerable and have a bad home life I guess =/ SO GLAD I left his ass.

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