Post # 1
I know this might be too personal, but (if you’re willing to share) are you guys planning to have a ridiculous amount of sex on your honeymoon? I hadn’t even thought about it too much because my fiance and I have been together 5 years and have settled into a good number, and I kind of figured it wouldn’t go up TOO drastically on our honeymoon. However, my friend just returned from her honeymoon and said HER friend and friend’s hubby had challenged her and her fiance to try to have sex more than they had on their honeymoon (in a joking way, I guess). My friend said she only made it to 9 times in 2 weeks, which didn’t even come close to the 21 times her friend had. This made my eyes pop out and I never even THOUGHT about it! If it is going to be that much I honestly might have to prepare myself mentally (and maybe physically!) for that!!!!
Have you guys given this any thought?! Or those who already honeymooned, did you literally have sex like, well, honeymooners?!
Post # 3
I’m planning my honeymoon now and like you, we’ve been together a while. But I figure that if we spend all day together, a few times per day isn’t outrageous and will be fun. We’ll of course take time to do all the activities we don’t normally get to do. But no matter what you choose to do, spending all that time together on vacation as newlyweds will be awesome.
I’m not one to kiss and tell (except anonymously on WB, I guess)… but a little more than the usual will be nice, but I see no need for a competition!
Post # 4
I’m assuming that we’ll have more sex than normal, but that’s because we’ve settled into a "our lives are insane with work and school and hey, look, we saw each other over the weekend!" pattern. (And we live together). So I’m expecting an uptick, but my guess is about once a day.
Post # 5
My FI & I agree that we will be stepping it up during our honeymoon so we are searching for private locations, and we insist on having our own pool or hot tub, to set the romantic mood 🙂 We’re still not sure where we are going but we WILL have lots of privacy, no over populated resorts for us! We are both just very excited about being able to "have fun" any time we want. Its been a trend for us to have waaayyy more sex when we are on vacation then our normal rountine at home, so I’m sure our honeymoon will be no exception, lol! 🙂
Post # 6
I believe we had sex every day of our honeymoon, the exception being travel days. We did go out of our way to have it more than at home, I admit. What is a honeymoon without lots of sex?
Post # 7
I know that we are keeping it open to whatever happens spontaneously. We have been living together for a while now and I know that we will be giddy with "wow, we’re married!!" and maybe sex will happen quite a bit more than usual?
Post # 8
Whenever my FI and I have a whole day alone, it’s kind of wild, so having a whole chunk of time together ought to be fun.
Post # 9
i’ve been forewarned by the FI to prepare myself for a increase in that area for our honeymoon… I think it is just a vacation thing also…. a week or two alone… that stuff just sorta happens! nevermind the unlimited drinks.. =)
Post # 10
I’ll fess up…we treated it like a honeymoon and acted like newlyweds. We made an effort to do it more than normal, so we did it every single day of our honeymoon and did more than once a few of those days.
Post # 11
Seeing as our life is overfull…and we’ve been doing the long distance thing…and I have 5 year old twins…and this will be the first time in about 6 months we’ve been away…and the last time in quite sometime (we are both sure) before we settle down into family life and a regular routine…I am positive we’ll be, um, REALLY, into each other. 🙂
Post # 12
When FI and I have the time, we’re in the bedroom a little more often anyway. With school, work, and wedding, we’ve settled into a routine of maybe three to four days a week (wow, I guess I am getting personal). When we had romantic getaway weekends before he picked up weekend shifts at work, we definitely made it into the double digits, so I imagine an entire week together with no distractions will rack up the numbers. The only reason our routine is what it is now is because of time constrictions, so with that out of the way, I know we’ll be acting like true newlyweds.
Post # 13
Um, yes yes, and more yes. Only because we are taking a 13-month break before that, and my FI lives in GA and I live in MO, so the prospect of two whole weeks together is really exciting. Usually we only get a weekend, and it’s filled with things to do. Plus, the all inclusive resort is super romantic, and all those margaritas i’m sure will add to it =]
And wow, 3-4 days a week? My FI would LOOOVE that! My FI keeps hinting about the balcony in our hotel room, but i tell him to keep dreaming
Post # 14
we’ve been together a pretty long time. we havent really talked about it but im sure we’ll just go with the flow. we never get the chance to be in a really romantic setting, alone, stress free, and not have to worry about anything (our honeymoon will be our first real vacation!) so im sure we’ll take advantage of the scenery from that alone…but planning more sex just seems a little creepy and forced for us!
Post # 15
Well, we average about once a day as it is… so I’m not sure how much more we can increase that! But having all that time together… I imagine the number will climb a bit!
I know that when we’re in hot, tropical locations I’m more likely to get a UTI, so just a heads up to those that maybe haven’t thought of that – be careful! Visiting a hospital in Mexico wasn’t super fun when we were on vacation last year, haha. So all you folks heading to the Caribbean…
Post # 16
Every day…. it was amazing!!!