Post # 1
Ok, so my fiance and I had our first big, full-on fight. We’ve had plenty of disagreements, but this is the first one in which raised voices and tears were involved.
The argument was over . . . . the color of the bridesmaid’s dress. I’m having one female bridesmaid and have already selected my MOH’s dress.
When I started tearing up, he realized that he was overreacting and we talked about the whole thing and worked it out.
I was wondering what you and your FI had issues with, care to share?
Post # 3
One of the absolute worst was a 3 day fight (where we barely said 2 words to each other and slept in seperate beds) was over the way I held a garbage bag.
Post # 4
I think it happens to everyone, even over completely ridiculous stuff. Stress does that to a person. My fiance and I once got in an awful fight because I made a nice dinner for us and he had to be at school super late that night – I swore he never told me and he swears he did. To this day we have no idea who is right and who is wrong. There were definitely a lot of phone hang ups, hurtful words, tears, and threats to never come home. And it sucked…and all because one of us forgot. Not our proudest moment, but take comfort because it happens to everyone!
Post # 5
Sorry I just laughed at these! I could definitely see us arguing about a trash bag. We have ridiculous fights when I’m PMSing. FI and I once argued about how many days you can wear jeans before washing. He said 2 I say 3 as long as you aren’t sweating and stuff. We argued for a couple hours about it. To this day that has been the most ridiculous thing ever. We laugh about it all the time.
Post # 6
We got in a fight tonight.. over him making dinner before I got home :/ I mentioned earlier in the day what we would be having and said I would stop at the grocery store on my way home to pick up “ground turkey and pizza crust.” Well he got off work earlier than I did so he went to the grocery store and then started making dinner. The problem was I needed more than ground turkey and pizza for dinner and there was a recipe I wanted to follow (we were making healthy calzones). I got all defensive saying I never asked him to make dinner so it was his fault it was messed up.
We separated for about an hour and now we are good! Such a ridiculous fight though, considering he was trying to do me a favor by cooking dinner before I got home.
Post # 7
At the moment ours is because FH owns a motorbike and a car.. and I can never call him on the way home from work because… he is out having a joy ride on his motorbike. Usually I call, because I either organise dinner or the plan for that night. It is usually a five minute convo but it has been important in our organisation skills since we have started dating. FH leaves too early for work in the morning and we never know what can creep up. And if im driving I can usually pop in and do errands or whatever needs doing after work.
Anyway the debate is that the motorbike is absolutely useless as I cant go with him on it, he cant carry anything, he cant pick up anything and I cant contact him. He just doesnt see the point. Boys and their toys!
Post # 8
wow, these stories are really comforting!
Keep them coming please!
Post # 9
FI and I had a huge fight over photography a few weeks ago. It was ridiculous, stupid and involved tears.
Post # 10
- Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School
The motherf&^*king dishes. If we don’t move into an apt with a dishwasher soon, we might have to eat out every single night just to avoid another argument!
Post # 11
He brought home the wrong pickles one time. Apparently navigating a grocery store with a list is very difficult and he couldn’t find them, so instead of ASKING, he just picked up whatever. Totally ruined dinner
Post # 12
We had a massive fight over… what flavour cat food to buy. I wanted to buy the same flavour we normally do because they are still babies and could get upset tummies if there were different ingredients in the other flavors. FI insisted that our cats needed variety and how would I like it if I had to eat the same food day in and day out. We did the rest of our shopping in silence and didn’t talk for hours. Now we look back and it was such a stupid fight! They are CATS they don’t care what they eat as long as we feed them!!
Post # 13
One of our biggest fights was over me not saying thank you after he brought me a hot dog from the MinitMart. I told him I didn’t want anything, but he brought me one anyway, so as I sat down to eat it, he smashed it!!! Literally! And said it was because I didn’t appreciate it so I didn’t get to eat it.
We laugh about it now, but boy was I pissed off! =P
Post # 14
Um… we had a HUGE blow out over a muffin tin. No joke. 🙂
Post # 15
@Roux, LOL. “cats need variety” that cracks me the heck up. All vets say NOT to give your cats variety cuz it makes them sick! hahaha. It’s too funny, I”m sorry =]
Post # 16
We rarely fight. Bicker? yes. Fight? no……Until last night, sitting around drinking beers by the pool with some friends. Somehow the topic of this lady we all worked with came up–a woman I didn’t particularly like when I worked with her, however, when FI worked with her, they hit it off. He would come home several days a week talking about all the things they had done at work (she is a physician, we were her students)–he’d call her by her first name all the time, instead of Dr.LastName…..it was annoying b/c I felt like he was trying to make me jealous and like he thought it’d be funny. Anyhow, we got into a huge fight in front of 2 friends (sooo embarrassing) about how I have no reason to be jealous of this woman who is twice my age (well probably more like 15 yrs older than me) and he calling me a liar. I slept on the couch….he is in the bedroom still sleeping. We’ve never gone to bed angry :o(