Post # 1
My fiance gave me a rim job the other night, and I was surprsied that I liked it. But now he wants me to give him one. I am very tempted because I am a very adventorous girl and I like to try everything at least once lol, but another part of me doesnt know if I should. Has anyone ever done it? if so did u like it?
Post # 3
As long as his hygeine is up to par, I’m sure you both would have a good time with you returning the favor. How into it (as it were) you want to get is up to you two.
Whenever you go there, there are risks, but they’re mostly very minimal (again, provided proper washing is observed) and I wouldn’t get them get in the way of some fun for sure.
As for me, I’m pretty freaky, my list of “stuff I won’t even try” is EXTREMELY short… but that is on it. (Not because of any risk, I just don’t wanna haha) Fortunately all my no-go things are on FH’s list too, and then some. (I’m definitely into weirder stuff than he is haha.)
I’ll do anything for love, but I won’t do that. ;-D
Post # 4
Quite honestly I’m into just doing it to the girl to see her reaction. Or at least I apply pressure with my finger in that area on her. The most that’s ever been done to me in that area is having the women sort of graze her finger over the area just barely. Nothing more than that.
Post # 5
My husband and I have been known to rim each other after a shower sometimes. We see it as a bit of light-hearted kink. He actually admitted that it feels quite good. There are a lot of nerves in that area. When we first started dating, I was the much kinkier one but I’ve been bringing out his inner freak.
But if you’re not comfortable with it, don’t do it.
Post # 6
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
We do a lot of different things, including in that general area, but for me something about buttholes and tongues just don’t mix!
But if he did for you, it’s only fair to give it a try… Just make sure he’s freshly showered.
Post # 7
I once dated a guy who could ONLY get off if I did that. As long as he showers first (every time. Seriously. EVERY. TIME.), you won’t even realize what you’re doing. It’s n big, and easier than giving head!
Also, if he’s hairy… He’s going to want to trim that. Just sayin…
Post # 8
Obviously the best time to give or recieve a rim job is after a shower/bath. Its the only time I allow it and the only I give it. I love it and he loves it. We also do anal on occasson but thats a whole other thing. Hes obviously interested in his bum being played with so, next time you are giving him a blowjob, rim him and then get it really slobbery and then stick the tip of your finger in there while sucking him…. I know, its TMI but its the best thing ever. I wish more men were open to bum play, they would realize why gay men actually enjoy sex…. lol
Post # 9
I feel like I’m pretty open to try just about anything, but that is one thing that is on my no no list. I’ve just started opening up to the idea of anal recently. But I do not want his tongue or my tongue anywhere near there.
I would suggest that you make sure you try it right after a shower.
Post # 10
@brid32bee: ok.. tmi but you asked… my bf did it to me and i didnt care for it… partly because i was so self conscious. he wanted me to try it to him… like you i am adventurous. he scrubbed and shaved back there and he loved it. as long as its clean its really erotic. but seriously… it has to be a sparkling clean area to enjoy it. use your finger too…. awesome reviews!!!!!
Post # 11
As long as you’re both clean, why not?
Not something I’m interested in, but definitely to each their own.
Post # 12
I’ve done it for DH on occasion, after a shower. He really enjoys it and it doesn’t weird me out too much if he’s clean.
Post # 13
I have never had this done to me or done it to anyone else. A few yrs ago my hobby and i tried anal…but it was horrible. it felt like i was taking a hard constipated poop…backwards. never again.
Post # 14
Go for it! Make sure he’s nice and clean – have fun and enjoy exploring each other!
Post # 15
@brid32bee: I’ve had it done to me but I have never done it. It’s not my thing.
Post # 16
i think it weirds my husband out more than me. i would totally do it for him if he wanted, but he is a kind of ‘stay away from my back door’ kinda guy.