Ring bearer alternatives?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 5
43300 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@frommisstomrs.:  Is there a reason you need 2-3 flower girls? Or are you just afraid of offending someone by not including their child?

Even if you have 3 flower girls, I don’t think it means you must have a ring bearer. Often the best man has the real ring anyhow.

Post # 6
10219 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Etiquette Snob here… lol

Child Attendants (actaully ALL Attendants) are optional.

Best Man could hold ALL the rings… or BM yours, and MOH the Grooms.

Choice is up to you.

Hope this helps,

PS… Nah, I don’t think it will look “odd” to have a bunch of cute little girls and no boys.  Girls will be adorable no matter what.


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