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    chocolatefreak       Fredericksburg, VA

    My boyfriend and I started seriously looking at engagement rings this weekend (yay!). As a forward thinker, I am considering what kind of wedding band I will want so that I can give him gudance on what kind of e-ring I like. I definitely want to be able to wear both on the same finger at the same time.

    It seems pretty typical that if the e-ring has side stones, the wedding band also usually has some sort of matching diamonds. I am curious if anyone has an e-ring with sidestones but is pairing it with a plain band, or a solitaire e-ring with a wedding band with stones. I would love to see pictures!

     Also, I know some bees have done polls about the cost of e-rings. I think it would bee cool to have a poll about what type of rings people have (type of metal, solitaire, with sidestones, plain band, etc.).

     
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    BA    7/12/08  

    My e-ring has tapered baguettes on the sides of a round centre stone, and we're getting plain platinum wedding bands!  It felt like overkill with too many stones to pick a wedding band with bling!

     
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    sweetvenus    05/02/09   Nashville, TN

    My ring is a round diamond with ruby sidestones, and I'm getting a plain band. I don't have any pictures yet, though.

     
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    rebecca    September 13, 2008  

    i have a three stone ring with round diamonds and i'm getting a plain band. like BA, i also felt like it was overkill to get a diamond wedding band. i don't want to cover up the setting of the ering though, so i'm going to wear my ering on my right hand and my wedding band on my left.

     
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    ErinSea    Spring 2009   Texas

    My ring is a cushion cut solitaire with a plain yellow gold setting. I think yellow gold looks better with my skin tone than white or platinum. We haven't had a talk about wedding rings yet, but I saw this beautiful antique ring on the Marlene Harris website just this morning and I was going to post it here so you could all see how lovely it is, but it must have sold I can't find it anywhere. Anyway, it was yellow gold and had alternating diamonds and sapphires arranged in a way to look like little flowers. There's one that kind of fits that description in white gold, but mine was much prettier. So, I guess I can't have that ring, but I"m thinking about asking for a band that has sapphires in it in some way because that's FI's birthstone and my favorite color. I think it would be special and something not many other people have.

     
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    calibride    May 2008  

    i think it depends on what you like. my ring was a solitaire. i really wanted an eternity band for my wedding band but because my ring is a solitaire, i found that plain bands looked best w/ my e-ring. so i had to give up the diamonds on my wedding band =(. I don't have any pictures at the moment, sorry. Good luck!

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    happybride       atlanta

    My ring is a cushion cut with half-moon sidestones. I thought I wanted a band with diamonds too...but decided that it would take away from the e-ring rather than compliment it.

    I think it depends on the type of setting and size of the stones too. My e-ring band is plain other than the sidestones so a plain band just kind of matches better.

     
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    AOEBuckeye    June 26, 2010   Alpharetta, Georgia

    I have a yellow gold solitaire with a round diamond.  I'm the minority with yellow gold, but silver tones look awful on me.  I had made a yellow gold eternity band with pave set diamonds.  Well actually, it's like 95% eternity, I had a very small section left without stones so it could be sized if need be in the future.

     
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    nikkolec    September 10, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    I have a solitaire and 2 bands, one with diamonds and one without.  I like the versatility of more/less sparkles Rings: Solitaire or with sidestones? :  wedding rings Icon Biggrin

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    MissRuffles    June 7, 2008   Wilmington, Delaware

    I'm thinking of pairing a channel-set Asscher cut band with my Asscher cut ering w/tapered baguettes:  http://9ahchick.googlepages.com/thebling

     My band will only have bling half-way so I can turn the plain side out if I don't want to be as sparkly.

     
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    suzanno    7/12/08   Richland, WA

    I have a center, round (brilliant) with eight channel-set side stones.   

    http://www.billbarnes.com/product.asp?product=6847

    The jeweler recommended channel-set diamonds as the wedding band, and although we had decided to get them, we were thinking I would have to wear them on separate hands (same idea - that the channel-set band would somehow "take away" from the e-ring).  I think that I actually was just intimidated by the bling factor though.  After going back to try on the wedding band over the past five months (having since gotten used to the e-ring) we have now decided that they look fantastic together.  The sparkle will put your eye out at 50 paces, but they look fan-tas-tic.

     
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    birdieputt       chicago/los angeles

    Go to Pricescope.com.  Click on the "Show Me the Ring" forum, and in the very first thread you will see over 120 pages of rings posted by users.

    My ring is a 4-prong solitaire, and I will be pairing it with a band with pave diamonds all around it.   

     
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    MsB    December 2008  

    I have a very simple platinium, 4 prong, 1 carat round cut diamond on a very thin (1.5mm) band. I am pairing it with an also very simple and thin (2.5mm) platinum band.

    I found that while I liked the look of the bands with diamonds it was too much for me. I love my E-ring and I don't want anything to take away form it, so I went with something simple.

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    MsB    December 2008  

    This is the look I am trying to avoid:

    (personal preference, not trying to insult anyone - I just find the wedding band competes with the E-ring")

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    furelysse    3/14/2009   San Jose

    I have a .75carat solitaire princess cut diamond set in a cathedral style band.  I hoping to pair it with a 2.5mm wedding band with princess cut in-lay diamonds, very similar to the picture posted by MsB.  I don't think the look competes with the e-ring too much, and am hoping to have a wedding band that can be worn by itself and still be stylish (all about personal preference). 

     
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    mssmartypants    August 2008  

    I have a princess cut solitaire in platinum.  When I was originally looking for bands, I was very much of the same view as MsB. I wanted a plain platinum band as I thought something with diamonds would compete and look too bling-y.  However, when I tried a channel band, it looked fantastic and I fell in love (again).  It didn't compete with the solitaire at all!  

    So that's what I went with, a platinum channel set band.  I also wanted a band that I could wear separately.

     

     

     
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    futuremrswecker    07/19/08   Santa Rosa, CA

    Oh, I am in LOVE with my e-ring!  And Mr. W. picked it out all by himself.  (Well, with a little help from the jewelerRings: Solitaire or with sidestones? :  wedding rings Icon Wink)  It's a 1 carat brilliant cut center stone with round sidestones and tapered baguette sidestones on the outside, set in platinum.  We haven't gotten wedding bands yet, so I don't have a picture of the e-ring with wedding band, but I'm planning on getting a 3-mm rounded palladium band.  (OT--I have it on authority that palladium is similar enough to platinum that the different metals won't cause any problems, but if anyone knows differently feel free to message me.)  I wouldn't personally want to get a wedding band with stones becuase it would just be too much.  I really like a simple small band that doesn't overtake the e-ring.  I will say, though, that I tried on a 2 mm and it was actually too small--it was kind of dwarfed by the e-ring and looked really weird.  To my taste, I definitely prefer a wedding band that's approximately the same thickness as the e-ring.

     
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    knudsonwedding    May 10, 2008   Ottawa, Canada

    My engagement ring is vintage with 41 pave set stones in the band. We had a matching double faux-eternity (the stones go about 80% around) band made to match. It's a lot of "bling", but I can wear just the band, or both, or just the e-ring.Rings: Solitaire or with sidestones? :  wedding rings N640436474 394929 3226

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    chocolatefreak       Fredericksburg, VA

    Thanks for the site, birdieputt. It's awesome. Your rings are all gorgeous. I can't wait to get mine!

     
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    vivian    8.8.08   O.C., CA

    I had my hear set on a 3 stone ring (center stone Asscher flanked by 2 trapezoids).  After months of searching, we finally found a jeweler with "my stone".  When he paired the side stones with it, we all agreed that any side stone detracted from the center stone.  So I have an Asscher solitare in a plain platinum cartier 1895-style setting. 

    I had wanted an eternity band, but like MsB posted, FI thought it would compete with the e-ring.  In the end, I got a plain platinum band with 3 set in stones for some delicate bling from Cartier. http://www.cartier.com/bridal/index.ph
    p?t=2&nav=ficheprod&ref=B4058300&cc=us
    &codeLang=en I'm happy to wear either ring alone or together, and maybe will get the eternity band for an anniversary ring on day to wear alone. :)

     
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    mrswhitetobe    may 17, 2008   montreal, canada

     

    I inherited my engagement ring and wedding band (though my fiance gave me a non-diamond ring when he proposed, too).  It's an emerald-cut diamond with a long and narrow baguette on each side in the very delicate platinum band.  The wedding band is just as delicate, and completely plain.  I think the simplicity of having a plain wedding band showcases your solitaire or three-stone ring's diamonds really well.  

    I mean, eternity bands are GORGEOUS.  I'm just thrilled with the history of the rings I got, and the fact that they're from 1942 and still look modern.

     

     

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    october2008bride    October 4, 2008   Toronto

    I actually like both looks - a diamond band can be a beautiful accompanyment to an ering as long as the size of the diamonds int eh band are complementary and not overpowering (as stated above).  I think part of it is that as engaged girls, we grow to love and are only used to our ering.  Another way of thinking of it is as a set - the engagement ring is a symbol of a promise, and the wedding band is a symbol of the committment - together, they are a symbol of your marriage.  So I thnk what is important is that they set looks good together and they compliment one another! 

    I am getting a diamond band, but am wearing them on different hands! My setting doesn't allow a band to sit with it, so that was what i had to do.

     Either way I'm sure your rings will look great!

     
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    MissRuffles    June 7, 2008   Wilmington, Delaware

    I just bought my wedding band, and I changed my mind to a 1.05 ct baguette eternity platinum band. I'm wearing it w/my 3-stone e-ring (Asscher w/side baguettes). I have pics on the page below:

    http://9ahchick.googlepages.com/thebling

     
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    FutureMrs       New York

    I love my ring!  My FI picked it out himself and I havn't seen anyone with one like it yet.  It's a radiant cut stone on a knife edge band with small pave diamonds in the band.  its the set to the right when you click this link.

    http://www.lieberfarb.com/home.php#

    you should just try a few on and see how comfortable you feel with the different looks!

     
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    ambsLS    June 17, 2006   Michigan

    I could take some pics of my ring, but I decided to go a different route... my e-ring is a white gold band with a single solitare, and then I went with a white gold/diamond wrap, 3 chanel set stones with a taller stone on each side.  I had them soldered together, so it looks like one ring.  It works really well with my short fingers, but it does create some confusion at times (not all people realize that it is 2 rings)!

    Hope that helps, and good luck shopping!! Congrats in advance! 

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    ktdid23    November 7, 2008   Annapolis, MD

    I have a solitare in a white gold Tiffany setting, and actually ended up with 2 wedding bands :-)  When we went to pick out the bands, I fell in love with a think gold band with 7 small diamonds across the top (from the top, it looks like an eternity band, but from the bottom it looks like a plain band).  It complimented my e-ring beautifully and still stood out - I wanted my wedding band to stand out; not steal the show, but not really play second fiddle to my e-ring, since to me, my wedding band symbolizes the official start of our family together!  But a few weeks later while I was hiking with my FI, I was constantly worried about my e-ring (i know the prongs are holding my diamond tight, but you never know!) and then had a sudden panic about my wedding band!  All the little diamonds!!  So that weekend we went to get a plain white gold band for me to wear to the beach, hiking, traveling, etc, so I don't have to worry about the band with the diamonds.  FI calls it my "adventure wedding ring".

     
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    My engagement ring has a princess cut side stone & 3 pave set stones on each side of the center stone... I wanted a plain band, but when FH & I went to look at bands, the plain one didn't look right, so we started playing with other options. We ended up with a white gold band with 5 alternating round & baugette stones.

     

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