(Closed) role playing

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 4
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1104 posts
Bumble bee

Sorry DH and I have a pretty kinky side but it has never involved role play! We have friends who like playing doctors and nurses, they even bought a toy doctor kit from a toy shop to use 🙂 How do you normally discuss sex stuff? I’d probably just say, maybe when you’re in bed, you’ve been thinking about role play stuff and what does he think? Maybe you could give an example like “I was thinking maybe it would be fun for me to dress up as X” and see what his reaction is. If you’re marrying him I’m sure you know him well enough to anticipate fairly well how he’s going to take it. Good luck!!! 🙂

Post # 6
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

Geez, I didn’t answer earlier because I thought someone else would have answered. LOL

I didn’t bring it up really. I just bought myself a costume and wore it one day. I went into my acting and he played along. I am the one who dresses up though. He’ll act, but no costume.LOL

I’ll add, he’s pretty open, like me, so it’s wasn’t a shock to him.

Post # 8
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513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I dress up for my FI sometimes. Sexy nurse or sexy maid is about all i have tried. I do sometimes dress up in super high heels thigh highs and sexy top or a steel boned corset. He loves it. It really gets me in the mood too. I think the key is to not be afraid to try something new. Just ask if he would like it if you surprised him with a little dress up. I was very nervous the first time. I had to have a glass of wine first but I really wanted to do something special for him. Now it is much easier. I just go get dressed and it is on from there.

Post # 9
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2196 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Love roleplaying! We always end up laughing though. We keep it light hearted, and if it’s not working for us we give it up. It’s alot of fun and I recommend it! It’s a good laugh or funny story if nothing else.

Post # 10
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1213 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I once dressed up in corset, stockings, heels etc. for FI as a surprise. He kinda freaked out. It did not go down well. I regret not talking about it first. Eventually we did talk about it and we slowly introduced little things like handcuffs and stuff. But usually we are very vanilla.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Me and FI have dabbled in a little role play but we usually are quite adventerous lol. He likes me to dress up and I dont mind doing it. It can be alot of fun especially after a glass of wine or 2!

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wow! I can’t believe this thread didn’t get many responses. 

FI and I roleplay all the time! I love it! 

Roleplays: 

Slave/master

Russian Bride

Kidnapper/victim  

school girl/teacher

 

We do a lot of BDSM stuff. Collars, whips, chains, ball gags, full body leather, ect. ^_^

Post # 14
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Blushing bee

BF and I put a pole in our room, so we roleplay stripper/customer because we have the props, lol.  We also do schoolgirl/teacher…isn’t there something fun about wearing plaid and pigtails?

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@ThunderBunny: Yes FI loves the whole plaid kilt thing lol I do tooTongue out

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