(Closed) romance and expectations

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Expectation is the death of serenity!  (That’s something I repeat to myself a lot.)  It’s totally OK to daydream, but don’t build things up in your mind until they reach monumental proportions.  I don’t think any guy could ever live up to the expectations that girls can dream up!!

Post # 4
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3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

put yourself in his shoes – if you were proposing to him (or whatever romantical thing it may be), and put a lot of thought into it and you found out he thought you did a $hitty job? you’d be really hurt. Try and absorb life for what it is and the special things will be more special. I suggest the Love Languages book though – if he really doesn’t put any time or effort into something you cherish so much, that’s a problem. But if he is doing something special for you in his own way, you need to learn to recognize that too..

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