Roommate Wedding Talk

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@MissOtter:  If she’s asking questions about it, she may just be curious.  I wouldn’t think she’d assume she was going to be a part of the bridal party unless that was something the two of you discussed before.  Are you inviting her as a guest?  If so, I guess I don’t know why you’re worried about talking about it with her.  If you’re not invting her as a guest, that’s a different story. 

Post # 4
1631 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MissOtter:  Say everything you said here – to her.

Let her know that you value her friendship and if she is genuinely curious about wedding details that you would be happy to divulge. You can let her know that if she is honestly just looking for conversation fodder that you two have other similar interests and you can speak on those instead.

Sometimes being straight and to the point helps friendships more then people think it would hurt them. Why beat around the bush and try to guess what she is feeling? Just ask. 🙂 and conversely you get to be honest about your feelings as well.

Post # 6
6158 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MissOtter:  you can always reply “you’ll just have to wait and see” if you don’t want to give away too many details of your wedding. you still want the element of surprise for your guests.


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