- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Ladies i need your opinions on this! My fiance and i have decided to have a Presentation of Roses for Mothers Ceremony. But heres the problem:
My mother, fortunately, is alive and well. But my fiances mother has been deceased since 2004. His father remarried in September of last year to a wonderful woman who has taken very good of him (survivor of colon cancer!) for about 2 years now. Im struggling with how to do the ceremony! Should we offer a rose in honor and remembrance of his beloved mother, or to his stepmother, who will be at the wedding. We dont want to do both, we just need opinions on which would be more appropriate. Im also making a toast for his mother at dinner, if that makes an difference in your opinion! Also, when should the rose ceremony be held? Were not doing the unity candle, wine box, etc, just vows and rings, essentially. Thanks so much ladies!