Post # 1
I love my FI and he is the love of my life. We’re both middle aged, he’s in his early 40s. We are very in love with each other and I know he’s the one… but our sex life is pretty dull. I’ve tried talking with him, his response is that he likes our sex life and he’s just happy to be having sex. We’ve tried going to sex shops, but he acts more like an nervous kid so that idea didn’t work. We’ve had honest discussions about it, and maybe things will change when we move in together in a few months.
Any other women on this site have a bigger (or more advernterous) sexual appitite than your partners? I’d be curious to know how do work with it.
Post # 3
Well. Sex shops can be intimidating for men. They are walking down cramped little aisles that are completely covered floor to ceiling in candy coated dicks of every size shape and function.
I’d say if you want to try bringing in a “marital aid” ask him what sort of thing he would like to use on you / watch you use, and then go shopping on your own.
Post # 4
I say, go online and search for the Lelo brand of ‘personal massagers’ they are actually very pretty sbd classy looking, if that’s possible! Not intimidating and , well, they work quite nicely! I ended up buying on amazon.
Post # 5
@Bracelet00: or order online…
Post # 6
As men age, their sex drive typically declines, and they can also have issues with ID. Do you think any of that is at play? Guys often don’t like to talk about it, so it may be hard to know for sure (no pun intended 😉 ).