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  • poll: Generic meal terms or Specific?
    Prime Rib, Cape Cod Chicken, Eggplant Parmesean (all specific) : (19 votes)
    83 %
    Beef, Poultry, Vegetarian (all generic) : (4 votes)
    17 %
    Prime Rib, Cape Cod Chicken, Vegetarian (mixed: Specific and Generic) : (0 votes)
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    jacobmbeck    May 21, 2011   Mechanicville

    When filling out RSVP's is is appropriate to include the specific title of dishes (prime rib, cape cod chicken etc. etc.), or should you use generic terms (beef, chicken etc etc)?

     

    This is what we currently have on our invitations (not ordered yet):

    ___ Prime Rib ___ Chicken Marsala ___ Eggplant Parmesean

     

    Someone else insists that we have this:

    ___ Prime Rib ___ Chicken Marsala ____ Vegetarian

     

    We say that if you are going to be specific with the meal selections then be specific. She wants the two specific dishes, and the generic vegetarian. We are paying for the invitations and like the way we have it worded, she is arguing otherwise.

     

    Are we right or wrong? Is there a right or wrong answer? Just looking for thoughts and opinions.

    Thanks!~

     
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    LGenz    May 21, 2011   New Jersey, Wedding in Clearwater, FL

    I'd put the specific dish for all three. For me, it looks off to have just one vague option.

     
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    mwitter80    December 11, 2010   Connecticut

    We used a generic i.e. Filet, halibut, Roasted chicken, vegetarian. At the bottom of the card we stated in smaller print "For a full menu description please visit our website under the Entree page" 

    We were able to give detailed descriptions there. So if anyone was concerned they could find the information themselves. I know that I am not answering your question but it may be a way around it if you have a website.

     
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    kitzy    June 2011  

    be consistent. use either all generic or all specific dishes.

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Would it look silly to put vegetarian in parantheses?

    Egglpant Parm (vegetarian)?

     
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    Jenniferk6    October 1, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    I voted for all generic because that's the way I've seen it done the most, but all specific is good too. Just be consistent.

     
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    doingathing    May 2010  

    I'd put specific names for all three, and put vegetarian in parentheses next to eggplant parmesan.

     
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    stillme    October 2010  

    You're right! It should be either all generic or all specific, though I prefer specific, because "vegetarian" could mean so many different things.

    I like SoontobeMrsA and doingathing's suggestion that you keep it all specific and add "vegetarian" in parentheses after eggplant parm, because a serious vegetarian may wonder if that dish is actually vegetarian.

     
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    sapphirebride    December 31, 2010   Seattle, WA

    I think your version is best. I think it's nice if you let people know what the vegetarian dish is. Sometimes I pick the veggie dish if it sounds tasty so it's nice to know what it is. No reason only the vegetarians should be in suspense!

     

     

     
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    jacobmbeck    May 21, 2011   Mechanicville

    @stillme: @doingathing: @SoontobeMrsA:

    Is it common for Eggplant Parmesean to have some sort of meat in it? I guess I am blind to the vegetarian world because I love my meat, but I always thought that Eggplant Parmesean is pretty commonly accepted as a vegetarian dish. Good info though I do like the idea of the "(vegetarian)"

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    I would do generic. I love @mwitter80:'s idea of adding 'go to the website' detail for more information on the food. 

     
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    Leprechaun    April 9, 2011   Dayton, OH (wedding in South Bend, IN)

    We did all generic because our invitations were on sale, and we hadn't had our final tasting yet.  But if we had known what the options would be, and we had room, we would have put the full descriptions.

     
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    Pia2010    November 26, 2009  

    The eggplant parm is clearly the vege option.  Your current invites are the right way to send them out. 

     

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