Post # 1
You have been so helpful to me with planning. I have taken a lot of your advice. Right now I feel like I have made a big mistake and I am looking for some reassurance or solution if you think I need one. I mailed out all of our invitations and RSVP cards. The rsvp cards include a stamp envelope to be mailed back in. Everything seemed great. Then I got an email from an Aunt asking if she should send the invite to our address on the invitation envelope or somewhere else. I realize I did not put our address on the RSVP card envelopes! It is still easy for them to see our address on the main envelope and write that out and send it there, but now I feel like I majorly messed up. If you received an invite like this, would you assume to write out the address it came from or would this be really confusing? Let me know. Thanks!
Post # 2
I’d use the return address and not give it a second thought. I think it’s weird your aunt had a question about it at all.
Post # 3
The address is somewhere in what you sent them so I don’t think it’s an issue at all.
Post # 4
I might be confused if it looks like someone else is hosting the wedding – ie if the invite says
“taysummers mom and dad invite you …”
Then I’d assume you’d sent the RSVP to them. If it says more casual/BG host centric then I’d assume you. However I dont think its bad that she checked, I’m sure she just wanted to ensure you get her RSVP!
Post # 5
Thanks! You are all making me feel a lot better. I obviously wish I would have had our address nicely printed on the RSVP envelopes, but the fact is that it totally slipped my mind somehow and I didn’t so I just have to be ok with it and hope that the majority of people will know to send it to the return address. It is hosted by us so I don’t think they would assume to send it to either of our parents and if they did it wouldn’t be a big deal. I guess I’m just a perfectionist and making this mistake is making me feel bad! I’m sure it’ll be fine and that I’m overthinking it.
Post # 6
No big deal! I would automatically assume to send to the return address! Hopefully if anyone has questions, they will ask you.
Post # 7
Small mistake, there are far worse things that could have happened with the RSVPs like having the wrong venue or names printed on it 😛
Post # 8
- Wedding: March 2017 - Outside in Paris
I would send it to the return address
Post # 9
Hopefully they all transfer the address to the RSVP envelope before they toss it.
I would have thought the address would have been printed on the envelope, especially since you put stamps on them.
I would send to the return address, but if your parent’s names were on their as hosts, I can see why she questioned it.
Post # 10
I’m going to be honest… I don’t usually send the RSVP back the instant I receive it so I wouldn’t have the invitation envelope laying around with the return address. I’m trying to get better at filling up my address book but there is a very high chance that I would not have your address.
That being said, I would just text you and ask for your address or look around online to find it. No biggie for me but you might have a few more non responders than usual.