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RSVP Cards- Vegetarian option

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    gailm    October 13, 2012  

    I have been a vegetarian for a number of years (just recently started eating meat) and I always appreciated seeing a vegetarian option on a response card!  Recently my caterer told me not to list a vegetarian option because people will pick the stake and the vegetables - assuming they could get both if the initialed both! 

    How many of you listed a vegetarian option and got inappropriate responses back!  What did you do?

     
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    abbie017    March 16, 2013  

    You're saying people will select two entrees?  I don't think that will happen, as long as you clearly differentiate the different selections.  We will be including out vegetarian option on the response card like:

    ____ Filet Mignon
    ____ Stuffed Chicken Breast
    ____ Baked Stuffed Portobello Mushroom Caps

    I think most people know to only select one.  And if they mess up, you could call and confirm!

     
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    gailm    October 13, 2012  

    Yes, I should have included the wording initially, The draft I have is "Please initial your entree selection" and then I will have images of a cow, chicken and carrot....

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    @gailm:  that was exactly what we did: little symbols of a carrot, fish, and cow-- zero confusion out of over 200 people. your caterer sounds paranoid! 

     
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    Spoonie    September 9, 2012   UK

    I sort of know who amongst my friends is a vegetarian and who isn't and will perhaps ask the rest before sending the invites. Job done lol

     
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    Over the Moon    December 31, 2012  

    If someone picks the cow and the carrot it's safe to say they aren't a vegetarian, so just write them down for the steak.

     
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    koi424    August 2, 2013   Central Jersey

    I guess I can see what your caterer is talking about. It is a little paranoid. :)

    If you can't do pictures, maybe if you worded abbie's example like this?

    ____ Beef Entree: Filet Mignon
    ____ Chicken Entree: Stuffed Chicken Breast
    ____ Vegetarian Entree: Baked Stuffed Portobello Mushroom Caps

    If the word "vegetarian" is on there somewhere, they'll get it.

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    I would take what your caterer is saying with a grain of salt, I don't think you'll have too much trouble with your guests getting confused. ;)

     
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    hotdiggitydog    June 11, 2011  

    I had 3 options on mine and nobody selected incorrectly!

     
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    msfahrenheit    August 28, 2011   Blacksburg VA

    @Over the Moon:  Love your very practical answer and I totally agree!

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    There was absolutely no confusion with mine.

    We had:

    please indicate each guest's entrée choice:

    ____ pistachio encrusted mahi mahi

    ____ hard carve rib eye

    ____ grilled veggie stack & calypso rice

    I was surprised we had so many takers on the vegetarian (vegan, actually) entree.  I thought it would be just me and my older brother (a vegan).

     

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