RSVP Nightmare! Help!

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: How would you handle this..
    Tell them NO.. : (6 votes)
    50 %
    Call the caterer and add 2 more people... : (6 votes)
    50 %
  • Post # 2
    2189 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    If the husband is very close to your sister then I’d suck it up and call the caterer and add two more ppl. You’ll do this like 5 times in the next few days anyway. 

    Post # 3
    6977 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I would call the caterer and see if they can adjust. If not, tell them you’re sorry but you already had to submit the finals numbers to your vendors.

    Post # 4
    1893 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

    Can you actually change the number of guests without being penalized by the catering company?

    Post # 5
    2179 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2024

    I’d go with a vote of tell your sister to handle this. It’s not your wedding and these are their pain in the ass friends so she needs to woman up and call the caterer herself and if they can’t be added then SHE needs to tell them, not you, it’s not your place.

    Post # 6
    1701 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    MilkCookies81:  if the husband is a very close friend to your sister and she want them to be there I say call them add 2 more people they still have time for adjustment the wedding is 2 weeks away 

    Post # 7
    5697 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I think people like that are freaking ridiculous and considering they’re basically coming for food and to say hi but can’t even bother to make the ceremony I’d be like sorry, numbers are in, kiss my ass.

    But really you should ask your sister what she wants.

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