RSVP NO # OF PERSONS

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Do you have a decline space? If not, that could mean that they didn’t know how to decline, however, I would definitely call to be certain. They may have just forgotten. We had a few people forget to write in food choices so some people just are absent-minded.

Post # 4
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1053 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Cedar Lake Cellars

I would definitely call to be sure.  That could definitely also mean everyone that you addressed the invite to.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@princesspink:  Call and make sure.  It’s no big deal.  “Thanks so much for your RSVP!  We can’t wait to see you!  small talk small talk small tallk.  I just wanted to confirm, too, you didn’t fill in the number of people, is it you and (Significant Other) or are just you able to make it?  Ok thanks.  Too bad about (Significant Other)/That’s awesome you can both make it.  I better let you go.  Thanks again, and we’re so glad you can come.  Bubye!”

Post # 8
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11242 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Did you not have an option for them to check “attending” or “not attending”?

Post # 10
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698 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

If you don’t feel comfortable calling, ask your mom to. I had my Mom and FMIL calling for clarifications when needed.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@princesspink:  I don’t think we can read your relative’s mind, lol. Just call him/her and figure out what they meant.

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