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We invited 207. Our reply's were "due" on Thursday but we're checking with people tomorrow and then really getting an answer from people by the following Monday.. but:
Yes: 105
No: 65
Haven't Heard from: 37
Yes I should mention ours were due June 15 (which granted, is an early reply date, but still), and after we sent reminders to those who hadn't replied, it took until today - 2 weeks later to get them all in. So annoying! Hope you hear from them soon.
Cool! We are in the same boat too (it's a destination wedding for most, about 80% will need to travel). Thanks for the report!
With one week until deadline, out of 214 invited, we only have 52 acceptances and 26 declines... that's less than 50% reply rate! Hopefully I get a huge bunch of these things in the mail this week, or we'll have a lot of people to call!
I should really call my brother and see hoow the responses are coming in from my side of the family...
i still have 2 weeks until deadline. we sent out 92 invites and so far have received 25 yeses and 1 no. 96% acceptance rate. haha. i'm expecting more no replies to come in soon. i know of at least a few people who have already told me no by other means.
So far with two weeks to go till the RSVP by date...
Total Invited: 202
Total Yes: 81
Total No: 14
Total Outstanding: 107
86% yes response
Total invitations sent: 65
Yes: 13
No: 1
Outstanding: 51
RSVP deadline: July 20 (sent them out about a week and a half ago).
Just got off a lengthy convo with my mom and based on verbage + some actual RSVPs recieved. It looks like our #s are as follows:
Adults: 95
10 & under: 8
5 & under: 8
Total: 111
It'll change I'm sure but that's a pretty # to be at! We need to reach 100 adults minimum, shouldn't be a problem. So everything else is fluff. Our ideal total # is to be at 120. Which I'm sure we'll exceed.
Yippee!
P.S. My breakdown is bc 10 & under are half price (up to 10 kids) then 5 & under are all free.
Total Invited: 215
Total Yes: 78
Total No: 14
Total Outstanding: 123
84% acceptance rate (of those that we've received)
Deadline is July 14th, for our destination (for our guests) to Nashville
Ours aren't due for another month but so far we have the following:
People invited: 267
Yes: 87
No: 11
Total Outstanding: 169
Due July 10th
Invited: 91
Yes: 48
Maybe: 2
No: 22
Outstanding: 19
It looks like we're heading to a 60% rate. Most of our guests are older and have to travel. I think only 10 guests are local. We are having the wedding where we live, our families live further away.
Invites sent on June 21st. We've been getting 2 - 3 a day, it's been so exciting!
Invited: 136
Yes: 28
No: 2
Outstanding: 106
The first week after the went out we had anywhere between 5-9 cards daily and it was super exciting. Now we're at 1-2 cards a day, but sometimes none. Ugh! I was so excited to open and see them everyday. Don't these people know I want to track their answers in my fancy new spreadsheet?
@sgarrisson2- We only sent our out last week and I am not looking forward to when the responses start dying down. What else would I check the mail for?!
Ours went out on Sat.
We are inviting 200 people and so far we have 44 yes's and no no's. 1 week down 6 to go.
My son's wedding is July 24 (3 weeks yikes!) and the final count to the caterer was due last Friday. They gave us an extra week to nail down the slackers and here is the result:
240 invited
170 accepted
70 regrets (or those who can't get their act together enough to make a decision so we are counting as a NO! They better not show up!)
The wedding is a semi-destination wedding 4 hours away at the beach college town where most of the guests used to live, so more guests accepted than we thought would actually.
hahah! You crack me up! I love your stance.
My mom's stance is well if people decide they can come the night before (rolleyes) we should find a seat for them. yes mommy.
Total yes so far: 81
Total no so far: 14
Total invited: 213
RSVPs to go: 118 AHHH
The RSVPs keeping coming in! But we just got one where the the couple RSVP'd with their two kids. We specifically addressed the outter and inner envelopes to just the parents so we could avoid the no kids talk. Ah, here we go!
Due date: July 23
Total invited: 113
Yes: 41
No: 2
Freaking out because I invited way too many people!! I'm looking for some no replies!!!
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Total Sent: 93
Total YES: 69
Total NO: 24
74% said yes.
100% of in-towners said yes (although we had a semi-destination wedding to our hometown so only 18 guests still live there - not even we do anymore!)
so out of the 75 people for whom it would be a destination, 51 said yes, so 68% of people from out of town are able to make it.
Hope that's helpful to some! I can't believe just how small and intimate our wedding is now going to be!