(Closed) RSVP question

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3574 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Even if everyone knows how to contact you, the information should be readily available on the invitation.  Can you add a phone number or something?

Post # 4
7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I think you should add how you’d prefer to be notified – meaning – either put and email or phone number (even though they have it).  You really want it to be as ‘no-brainer’ as possible – unless you don’t mind hunting down a lot of RSVP’s.  


Post # 5
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think you should at least include a phone number or email address on the invitation.

Post # 6
5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

Never underestimate the stupidity of people.  =)

But seriously, I would still put your number.

Post # 7
491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We didn’t send the “send back” blah blah.. We put on there that they could RSVP on our wedding website (here’s the link) or by calling us: (here’s our phone number) or by e-mailing us (here’s the special e-mail).. so far it’s worked pretty good, but I’m still hunting RSVP’s and people are still LAZY!

Post # 8
2820 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I would probably still list your info, just in case, or if you have a preferred way to contact you, etc. Some people put their wedding website on there because there’s all the extra stuff like directions, hotel blocks, etc. on there. : )

Post # 9
1843 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I agree with the others – still put your phone number and email address on the actual invitation.  Also be prepared to make phone calls/send emails to follow up with any that don’t RSVP.

As far as the registry information, you are correct.  Do not include it with the the wedding invitation, but it would be fine for the host of your wedding shower to send it out in those invitations.

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