(Closed) RSVP Sadness! My first “Decline” and having to decline my friend’s wedding! :(

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1765 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Aww!! I know what you mean about wanting everyone to attend. But on the other hand, at least he is getting to spend a lot of time with you, so your wedding details will be influenced by him and in some small way he will be there!

And about not being able to go to the other wedding–boy, do I understand that! Send your regards… I ended up having to go home every weekend (4 hours away!) this past month because of wedding stuff for a friend who’s not that close, and I kind of felt a little bitter about it. 

PS- YAY May 2010 brides!!!!

Post # 4
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m sorry!!!  That’s tough.  I’m sure your friend will be thinking of you on your special day!

Post # 5
129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010 - Stage 6 Steiner Studios

That’s too bad! I’m sure your friend will feel like he’s there if he helped you pick out the dress. And you can tell him what it success it was w/your FH!

Post # 6
5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m sorry! At least he will be able to give an opinion on your dress. = )

Post # 7
244 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

thats disheartening. but at least you were able to invite them. i have to turn friends away because i wont be able to fit them in the room!

Post # 8
256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

 I am sorry to hear that. I had something similar happen this weekend while at my cousin’s wedding several family members declined in person 🙁 You expect declines but there are certain people that are harder than others.((HUGS))

Post # 9
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Aw, that is a bummer.  I’d be sad too.  I don’t look forward to getting the no’s :o(  I’m gonna be like, “well figure something else out because your attendance is not optional”  just kidding… kinda lol. 

I don’t blame you for not being able to go to the other wedding.  I’m sure you’re saving up for your wedding and the travel time/cost can be a lot.  I imagine your friends will understand.  If you can, I’d send them a gift though.

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