RSVP'ed No to STD…still need invite?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
2073 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I wouldn’t bother.  THey told you they can’t come.  Save your money on postage and the invite

Post # 4
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767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@REchick:  Well as a 20 year old I would say no BUT knowing my grandma who is older I would say you need to send one. Just because they didn’t book a room doesn’t mean they don’t want to stay some where else and the (most likely)have forgotten that they RSVP*ed. They will probably be offended if they know you well. 

Post # 6
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7385 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@REchick:  If you have spoken to them then I say no need to send the invite. But if you haven’t spoken to them then I would either call them and confirm the no or send them the invite.

Post # 7
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441 posts
Helper bee

I like still getting invitations, just as keepsakes, even when I can’t attend. But that’s just me. :p

Post # 9
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767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@REchick:  Ya then I wouldn’t send one!! lol I thought you meant they said no a long time ago 🙂

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