Rude guest Thank You note?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Just thank them for the parts you are thankful for. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee

I think you need to have a discussion w/ your mother about what happened–forget the thank u note for now.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Confine the note to the things for which you are thankful.

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Woah! That is CRAZY!

I guess I’d thank them for the dress and avoid saying anything else!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@MrsPHopefully:  +1

This has gone a bit beyond thank you notes, don’t you think?  

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2014

If saying thank you doesn’t feel right (I can only imagine how hurt you and your husband must be feeling) instead of thank you for the dress and  accessories you could say “I appreciate your generosity in purchasing my wedding dress and accessories.” and maybe how you felt special in such a beautiful dress. At least the cops weren’t called…and as for her blanking out…I am sure the whole day wasn’t a blur and she’s probably really embarrassed!

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