Rude ring comment… just venting.

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

@SarahTee:  What a turd!  I would delete her comment off of my wall.  To each their own. Some people just don’t seem to get that.

I get snobby looks when people ask me about my diamond and I tell them that it’s a moissy.  It’s really infuriating.  I don’t want to waste all of our money on a freaking rock.  I happen to LIKE the way the moissy throws off so much color, and I happen to LIKE the pricetag!  

Some people are rubbish.

Post # 4
11668 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@SarahTee:  that’s really rude, but I wouldn’t let it bother you for another second – not worth it. Defriend her and move on.

Post # 5
1170 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2002

I would tell her what you told us!  Some people simply do not like huge diamonds!  How rude of her!!

Post # 7
1134 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@SarahTee:  Wow, how rude and terrible of her to say that. She shouldn’t have said anything at all. 

Just yesterday I went out to lunch with a friend and the older waitress said “that ring looks fake as hell, sweetie.” Yeah lady, next time you want a generous tip, try to be decent and not patronizing. 

Post # 8
1287 posts
Bumble bee

Tell her to go educate herself in diamonds and prices and get back to you on whether her boyfriend will buy her a big quality diamond 😉


Post # 9
2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@SarahTee:  honestly women who feel this way are WAY too materialistic in my opinion…yes, you should love your ring. But having somethung that costs as much as a flipping car on your hand is just silly. 

Keep your head up, people like that dont even deserve a second thought. 

Post # 10
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

That is SO bizarre! I can’t even imagine saying that to someone!

Post # 11
1662 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Waldorf Astoria, Chicago

That is super rude, to be honest you get comments no matter what the size of your ring is.  I had a friend make the most disgusted face when I told her my ring was 1.5ct.  Like it was too small, I really don’t think it’s small at all…and I’ve had others say things that are total backhanded compliments b/c they think my ring is huge.  I think people are just jealous no matter what your ring looks like.  All those single ladies out there just want one on their fingers too! 

Post # 12
5207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@SarahTee:  That comment was so pathetic it’s not even worth getting mad over. If anything you should be laughing at her stupidity.

Post # 13
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

My own mom and dad said to my FI you should upgrade it in 5 years after she becomes a dentist as it will make her look bad. So much pressure! And rude but they like to show off and by then I would buy my own ring or upgrade if I wanted it.

Post # 14
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

@LMD:  I have had some people with that attitude but I find most people really like it. But I love talking about SiC and its properties etc. 

OP, ignore her. Haters gonna hate, as the famous adage goes. 

Post # 15
1018 posts
Bumble bee

@SarahTee:  Just a shot in the dark but is there any chance she isn’t engaged? Lol cause that comment sounds like TOTAL jealousy.

I don’t know why people feel the need to comment on the size or style of someone’s ring especially if it’s negative. Someday she may get engaged and she’ll probably be one of the people on here complaining that it isn’t big enough when it is beautiful.

Post # 16
6525 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@SarahTee:  I would tell her, hey, at least I have a ring, wheres yours?


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