Rude wedding related FB post

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
650 posts
Busy bee

I love how it ends with “Love you all!”

Those kind of posts are rude and the bride is being lazy.

Post # 3
3262 posts
Sugar bee

It makes me embarassed for them. 

Post # 4
5745 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2014

SunnierDaysAhead: Yep, rude and lazy. 

Thankfully we had zero issues with ours (everyone RSVP’d by the deadline; no-one added anyone lol); but had we had issues, I’d have contacted those people directly. I have a friend who posted do CONSTANT statuses along the lines of what you posted above, and it drove me insane. Not only do I think it’s a bit rude, but it’s also a bit cringy; like, why have you invited all these people who can’t be bothered to reply on time?! 

Post # 5
3083 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I don’t think that it’s horribly rude.

Post # 6
966 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Merritt Winery


hollyberry4:  First thought that popped into my head while reading this…yikes, I wonder if we will be seeing this on an episode of Bridezillas!

Post # 7
695 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June, 2014

I only use Facebook to keep in contact with my close friends and family. Because of that, about everyone in my Facebook friends was invited to our wedding and little posts like these would have been way faster for tracking down the RSVPs we never got back and seems less invasive than calling them and badgering them to get their yes or no. But that’s just me. Every bride is different and frankly I think if it’s not actually harming anyone, eff the etiquette and let them do their thing. 

Post # 8
1288 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

hollyberry4:  I’ve got one too.  Almost made my own post about it.  This is a copy and paste:

PS: This is a CELEBRATION, NOT a huge party.  Well yes we will be partying … BUT it is not some crazy stupid retarded party where everyone can get all retarded (fight, throw crap everywhere, start drama, act like fools, or disrespect me).  It’s just a regular celebration but with beer.  We would love everyone to celebrate our marriage with us without having to worry about other people’s retarded behavior all night.  Please do not invite any dates without asking us first.  If they weren’t invited by one of us, there’s probably a reason.  Hope to see everyone there!  It’s gonna be a good time!!

Post # 9
937 posts
Busy bee

I don’t find it offensive. It probably could have been said in a message though, but posting is much quicker.

Post # 10
6796 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

You can control the audience of your Facebook posts. Perhaps the bride has created a Friends List of only people invited to the wedding.

Post # 13
1324 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

hollyberry4:  yikes. the horror!!!! i definitely think its rude :-/

Post # 14
8894 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

208bride:  wow, that’s bad. Love her repeated use of the word retarded and saying if you weren’t invited there’s a reason. 

Post # 15
577 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Tacky and said in poor taste!

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