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I'm from Alabama originally and now live in Florida. He is from Chicago and has lived in L.A. and Florida. We both love the rustic look and the beach as well. I read on here that there is a place in Orlando called the taproom at dubsdread. It looks beautiful. I'd love to go somewhere like this that is on or very close to the beach. I haven't been anywhere to look around yet. I'm willing to travel somewhat because many people will be coming from out of town. However, we have several friends in the local area so I'd like to stay somewhat close if possible (Cocoa Beach). I'd like for everyone to be able to stay in the local area and even at a single resort and enjoy the weekend and the surrounding area. I'd like the girls to have a spa and a classy place with a nice ambiance like a wine bar or something and the guys to have a local place to hang out, play pool, and enjoy sports on tv as well as good music and good drinks. We are looking to create an enjoyable weekend as our wedding. We may do the honeymoon at a later time so we can party it up during wedding time and have a very enjoyable honeymoon as well. We are both a little older but this is our first wedding. 31 and 48 at wedding time. Please let us know if you have any ideas. We want to go on a European cruise for our honeymoon if anyone has any ideas on that as well.