Sad news, family problems, advice please.

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 2
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152 posts
Blushing bee

I’m so sorry this is happening! I would ignore all of the reasons you aren’t speaking in your text to him. The important thing is to let him know you’re thinking of him now and here for him if he needs you. 

Post # 3
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819 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

fluffysweet:  if it were me I would try to put everything in the past (as you seen to be doing), and send him something heartfelt. What you wrote in your post would work! I would say something along the lines that I’m there for him and miss him. In the grand scheme if things, petty arguments and feuds are so trivial. Hopefully this gives you and your family a chance to reconnect 🙂 I wish you lots of luck!

Post # 4
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45242 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I suggest you take the high road and text him.

“I heard about your friends being killed.  You will miss them terribly. I am so sorry for your loss.

I love you.”

Post # 5
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969 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Omgosh, in the shooting? That is awful! I, as pp said, would text him and let him know you are thinking of him, and are there for him.

Post # 6
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1941 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think that this is one of those times you should put aside your differences and let him know that you are there for him. That is so sad! 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - 13th ~ TN

fluffysweet:  That is so awful! I am sorry for your loss, that is what you should say to him.

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