Sad realizations about my sister

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
830 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@solidarity:  I’m sorry to hear that. You can’t choose your family, right? Sorry I don’t have any words of wisdom for you but I hope things get better somehow.

Post # 4
Member
305 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I go through bouts of the same thing with my brother. Also very bright but works terrible jobs, and can’t really keep them that long. My parents have been paying his bills and his unsuccessful attempts at college. He’s also a conspiracy theorist and Ive just gotten to the point where I ignore any texts that aren’t about our grandpa’s health. But apparently he has stepped up in that regard. He used to never see him unless I was in town and going to see him, but now he spends most days there taking care of him. 

Post # 5
Member
3598 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

My sister is actually more successful career-wise than I am.  She’s also a snooty bitch and hasn’t spoken to me in eight years after she blew up at me over something stupid the night before I moved to another state.  She treats our father like crap.  She got married around the same time I did and my dad says she treats her husband like crap too.  

My husband and I agree that even if she does ever decide to try to make nice with me, she won’t be allowed around our children.  She gets so damn hostile toward me, and I don’t need someone spewing venom about me to my kid.

Post # 6
Member
971 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I have 2 older sisters, I’m the youngest. One is very responsible, keeps committments, disciplined and has done well with her career. My other sister has been in a dead-end job for years, took years to get a college degree and borrows money from family members (not me though – I don’t lend her any money because she never pays it back) since she can’t keep a budget and has bad credit. Guess who’s not coming to my DW? She hasn’t said so yet but I know in my gut she’s not coming so we’ll keep playing passive-agressive games until she fesses up at the last minute and says she can’t afford it. I know she wants me to bail her out and pay for her to come, but I’m not doing it and neither is my other sister. She just tires me out, and I told FI that she can look at the photos when we get back… 

 

 

 

Post # 8
Member
1590 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

YEah. I get it. I love them but sometimes I don’t like them. I won’t get into it since I’m on my tablet.

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