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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    Lol, I went to SSA today to get my name changed officially! The lady asked for my social security card, and after doing some stuff, she ripped it up and threw it out. :( 

    I was confused. hehe.

     

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    LOL, you should get your new one soon. Here in CA they gave me back my old one while I was waiting for my new one. Same with my driver's license.

     
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    Treasure43    September 18, 2010  

    Aw! They never took mine...weird. I got my new license and SS card the same day and I actually cried a little bit because it felt like the "old" me was gone.

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    WoW...i don't know how I would have reacted to that. I didn't take mine with me, so she didn't have the chance to rip it up, lol I just got my new one today!

     
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    Jacqi    February 28, 2009  

    That's strange. I got mine back "for my records".

     
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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    @meliss - I should get my new card in about 2 weeks in the mail. I'm not sure why she had to throw it out. poo :(

    @Treasure43 - I know, I feel like I have no identity! lol I'm changing my license next, but thought I needed my new SS card to do that...is that not the case?

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    They didn't rip mine up in front of me but took it and told me it would be destroyed.  I was kind of sad - I wanted to keep it.  But I think in this day and age of identity theft, they try to minimize unnescessary SS cards from being in circulation.

     
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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    @Mrs.KMM:that's a good point...I didn't think of it that way.

     
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    Bride109    October 9, 2010   Rochester, NY

    I didn't need my Soc. card to get my new license -they just asked to see my current old name license and the marriage certificate. They DID give me a bit of a run around saying they needed my "registration" because they had to change that.  So I went back home (hubby had driven) and got it. Got back to the DMV to be told no, they needed my Title, not registration. *Sigh* I'm going to another DMV tomorrow, with both.

     
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    JuneBride_26June2010    June 26, 2010   Indiana (legally married 13-Apr-2009)

    yup - here in Indiana I still have my original SS card and my drivers license...i actually carry both in my purse - probably shouldn't do that - i need to put the old one in our safe. :P

     
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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    @Bride109:good to know, date twin!

     
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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    @JuneBride_26June2010:or just rip em up! lol

     
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    Missbliss      

    I think I would be sad too!  Mine has my childhood signature on it!  I remember practicing writing it before I got my card, and it's really the document that is my first legal signing of anything!

     
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    soonerpsych    June 26, 2010   Oklahoman at heart, now in Southwest FL

    I guess it makes sense why they do it, it's just very odd that they're so inconsistent!  I wasn't even asked to show my old card.  I did need the new card to get a DL though, and many states are switching to stricter DL identification laws over the next couple years.  FL switched earlier this year.  I wouldn't risk waiting in that long line without your new social security card!  But hooray for name changes!

     
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    cola    June 12, 2010   Married in Woodside, CA, Now Living in Raleigh, NC

    I would be sad too! And I agree, it's so weird that they're really inconsistent about letting you keep it or not.

    Guess I'll find out sooner or later if they'll let me keep mine...whenever I get around to actually changing my name on more than just my email signature!

     
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    Mrs. Flip Flop    August 14, 2010  

    I just changed my name yesterday and they didn't even need to see my old one.  All I needed was my marriage license and my driver's license...

    I hate when they do that without even warning you!

    Since it's a federal card it seems weird that the policies would differ in each state!

     
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    locket    September 25, 2010  

    hahaha @cola I am just as bad!  I just found our marriage certificate in the mail and am putting it off.

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    I was sad when she ripped mine, too!  I've had it my whole like and when she did that it made me feel like the old me had died. :(

     
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    Rgeddy    June 13, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    When I went to the SSC office here in NC they didn't need my old one.  I didn't even have it with me.  They just filled out the form, gave me a recipt and I was done!  They mailed it to me in less than 2 weeks.

     
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    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    That's strange, they just handed my old one back to me.

     

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