(Closed) Salon time and who is responsible for the bill.

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think you should pay for it.  She should pay herself!  The only time you are required to pay for someone is if you are requiring your BMs to have their hair or makeup done a certain way.

Post # 4
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

If you aren’t ASKING her to get it done and she is making that choice for herself then, in my opinion, you have zero responsibility here at all.  Sure, it’s nice if you help her make the appointment, but really I think you are fine telling her that you have made your own arrangements and she should do the same.

If you are requiring that people have their hair and make up done though, you should make the arrangements and pay for it. 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I agree she should be footing the bill especially if she wants a ton of extra stuff done!

Post # 6
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134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I gave my BMs the option of getting their hair and/or makeup done at the salon I go to.  I let them know the cost of each service and I booked all the appointments.  My salon does snacks and mimosas for bridal parties, super fun.  Each girl is going to pay for whatever they want done but they all knew ahead of time and some are opting out all together with is totally fine too.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I am paying for my BP’s salon time, but that is because I booked it and told them that it would be part of their gift. However, I am only paying for their hair; any make up or nails that they want done will be their money.

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper

You definitely aren’t required to foot the bill or, for that matter, obligated to have her join in.   If you are fine with her being there – I’d tell her what hours you will be there and have her book her own appointment.  

Post # 9
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218 posts
Helper bee

She should pay for herself (and she should know this!)

Post # 10
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1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

She should pay for herself and even book for herself too! did she make any comments that sounded like she is assuming that you would pay?

Post # 11
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536 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Let her pay for herself!  If she is getting a ton of stuff done why should you have to pay? 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Let her book and pay for herself…may be a good idea to tell her that in advance.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

My FMIL is also getting her hair and make-up done with us the day of and mani/pedi the day before but SHE is paying for hers. I don’t think you should have to pay unless that is your gift to her.

Post # 14
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2867 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Maybe she was asking you about being included because in the case of larger bridal parties at smaller salons they will sometimes have the whole thing to themselves (she would still need to pay for her own services – but she wouldn’t be able to book an individual appointment if you had the salon reserved). 

If you only have one bridesmaid, I’d just tell her where you two are going and when and let her book her own. You do NOT need to pay for her services – nor should she expect you to.

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