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  • poll: No Sash, Sash, Embellishment?
    1: no sash : (1 votes)
    1 %
    2a: ivory satin ribbon : (23 votes)
    22 %
    2b: ivory satin ribbon with flower : (52 votes)
    50 %
    2c: ivory satin ribbon with bling : (10 votes)
    10 %
    3a: organza sash : (4 votes)
    4 %
    3b: organza sash with flower : (12 votes)
    12 %
    3c: organza sash with bling : (2 votes)
    2 %
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    I had my second fitting today, and my big question is whether I should add a sash. And then, if I get a sash, do I go plain or with an embellishment.

    These are mockups so obviously they aren't perfect. For example, the gathering of the organza would look nicer and the sash would lay flatter, and likewise the gathering on the satin if I got the bling would be better.

    I'm also concerned that with the shoes I have on the dress is too short, so comments on that would be appreciated. I will be wearing no shoes for ceremony, so this matters for the reception only.

    1. Just the dress:

    Sash help (lots of pics!!!) :  wedding dress fitting sash bling flower DF2.16.frontnosash

     

    2(a). Dress with ivory satin ribbon:

    Sash help (lots of pics!!!) :  wedding dress fitting sash bling flower DF2.04.satinonly

     

    2(b). Satin with flower:

    Sash help (lots of pics!!!) :  wedding dress fitting sash bling flower DF2.05.satinflower

     

    2(c). satin with bling

    Sash help (lots of pics!!!) :  wedding dress fitting sash bling flower DF2.07.satinbling

     

    3(a). organza sash

    Sash help (lots of pics!!!) :  wedding dress fitting sash bling flower DF2.09.organzaonly

     

    3(b). Organza sash with flower

    Sash help (lots of pics!!!) :  wedding dress fitting sash bling flower DF2.11.organzaflower

     

    3(c). organza sash with bling

    Sash help (lots of pics!!!) :  wedding dress fitting sash bling flower DF2.14.organzabling

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    PS. my mom hates the idea of a sash, so I might have my seamstress make it detachable. Then, if my mom flips, I go without for the ceremony and with for the reception.

     
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    itshouldsnow    June 2012  

    I like the satin with bling, or the satin with flower. I love your dress!

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    @itshouldsnow:  Thank you. It's a Priscilla of Boston, so there will sadly be no more of this dress. :(

     
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    anotheroneofmany    December 17, 2011  

    I REAALLY like your dress with a sash.... it's a beautiful dress no matter what, of course, but the sash really gives you waist definition and takes the dress to a whole new level of awesomeness!!! :)

    tell your mom it's your dress and you love it and you really want a sash! i'm assuming you got to pick the dress in the first place, so just go with that line of thinking! ;)

    for the record, i voted for the satin ribbon with flower.... i think the texture difference will be awesome for photos, and the flower really makes it go well with the dress lace pattern.... :)

     
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    Brielle    May 22, 2009  

    When I saw how many options were listed in the poll, I was expecting this to be a tough decision for me.  When I looked at the options one stood out FAR above all of the others as THE solution (in my opinion, of course):  Option 2b, the ivory satin ribbon with the flower.  Here's why.

    I love, love, love bling, but the bling you are showing in these pics doesn't really do anything for your gown except to become a smallish, not-so-attractive, darker, focal point that detracts from the beauty of your gown. So the flower wins it hands down for me.

    Also, your gown, being lace, has a lot of texture.  The satin ribbon provides a very neat, clean contrast to the lace, but, because it's in the same color, it looks beautiful with your gown.   On the other hand, the organza sash adds bulk, and because it folds a bit, it also adds unnecessary texture.

    So, for me, the only choice -- and I love it! -- is the ivory satin ribbon with the flower.  It really looks beautiful!

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    @Brielle:  Thanks for the feedback! I don't really like bling in general and this was the only piece she had on hand, but I thought I'd put it out there in case I was crazy and it looked awesome.

    At the alterations place, I thought the organza looked best, but looking at the photos, I am drawn to the satin. Choosing the dress was apparently the easy part!

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    @anotheroneofmany:  I picked the dress, but let me tell you, she had a lot to say through the whole process and thank the lord she and I loved the same dress, because it was getting really miserable for a while there.

    I'm don't handle not getting my way well (when I think it's reasonable that I should get my way), but my mom takes that to totally differnt levels. If I wear a sash, I better pack my bags too because I'll be going on a guilt trip!

     
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    SaraP2012    June 23, 2012   Dallas, TX

    I love the satin sash with the flower! I think it adds a softness and helps to define your waist. Beautiful dress!

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    @SaraP2012:  Thank you :)

     
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    phimegaphi    October 13, 2012  

    I'm having the same trouble deciding on my dress. On yours, I'm torn between the simple satin sash and the sash with bling (i voted for the bling in the pole thingy, but it was a close call). Your dress is simple, and I really like that (mine is too), so that's why the simple satin sash is appealing. But the bling gives a nice, interesting detail to look at, and it really accentuates your waist.

    It's a very pretty dress, so, you know, you have no bad decisions here. You look beautiful!

     
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    phimegaphi    October 13, 2012  

    I'll add (probably unhelpfullly) that on second look I really like the satin with the flower. You are going to look amazing no matter which you choose. I like your idea of having it detachable, then you can have options, and have pictures without it, and with one or more.

     
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    Dandelion D    April 13, 2013   Virginia

    The satin with the flower is my favorite!

     
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    brenda.m.fields    March 3, 2012   Fort Lauderdale (wedding) & Gainesville (home)

    @phimegaphi:  That's true; detachable will give me more picture options.  Thanks :)

     
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    jwilson1    November 17, 2011  

    Satin with flower.I just love the texture that the flower adds to the overall look.

     
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    futureboo    November 19, 2012  

    plain satin or satin with flower.  I think that it makes your waist look tiny!

     

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