(Closed) Save the Date

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

We’re actually dealing with something similiar. If you ask my FI, a STD is just a “notice of our intention to get married on said date” however, FI has absolutely no idea of the etiquette behind it. Technically speaking, those who you sent STDs to, should be invited to the wedding.

With that said, if these are your parents friends and they are no longer speaking, do you think they’d actually come to your wedding?

Post # 4
Member
1991 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’d just love to see the responses on this!

However, I’m going through the same thing as well. We’re still not sure how we want to handle it.

Post # 6
Hostess
11174 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

I think if something comes up between the STD send out and invitation and you don’t feel comfortable inviting them then don’t. I am pretty sure that person or family will know what is up if they are involved in the conflict.

I am being very cautious with my STD send out because there are some people I very easily could see me not wanting to invite a year from now.

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