Save the Date Backlash :(

posted 3 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
Member
757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MsGinkgo:  I think no matter how big your guest list, you’re going to run into this.  I just sent mine out as well, and got the same reactions.  I have two cousins who are much older than me, and who I haven’t seen since I turned 10.  They live very far away, are married (we weren’t invited to their wedding) and don’t really keep in touch with the family.  Well, whhat do ya know? One of these cousins showed up at my parent’s house with my aunt and uncle- and was making subtle comments about how she wasn’t invited.  Don’t sweat it, you do what you can! Save the dates were a lot more stressful than I anticipated too.

Post # 4
Member
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I had an aunt say she didn’t like me when she found out we were having an extremely small wedding (that she wasn’t invited to).

I wouldn’t worry.

Post # 5
Member
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@BrandNewBride:  I would have said, “Good thing you weren’t invited then as I don’t like you either!” 😛

Why are people such jerks sometimes, lol.

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