(Closed) Save the Dates

posted 7 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Hmm… I’m not sure of the actual etiquette for that.  Usually when you send out formal invitations, you would send to the person you’re inviting, and then if you’re allowing htem a guest, you’d put “and guest” so they know they have a +1.  But I think it would be wierd to put “and guest” on your outer envelope for your Save the Dates.  I think you probably just send it to the person you’re inviting and then if they really want to find someone and aren’t sure, they’ll ask you.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Are you inviting a lot of OOT guests? I think when you send out invites the 2 months should be plenty enough time for someone to decide on a 1+

We just addressed them to the actual person.

Post # 5
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516 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I didn’t include guests on the STD cards. That will be done on Invites

Post # 6
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8354 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I didn’t inclued plus ones on the save-the-dates either. I will do that when I send the invitations.

Post # 7
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13102 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I guess I’m the minority but I put it on the Save the Dates!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

No, only address save the dates to the person invited.  When you send invites address the outter envelope to who is invited and then on the RSVP card say how many seats are reserved (or if you have an inner envelope you can say Mr. John Smith & Guest.”

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