Post # 1
I’m going home in a month. I’m going to see pretty much everyone on my guest list. Should I send out the STD’s before I go home or after? I know everyone will want to know when the wedding is. I’m also wondering because I’ve been waiting to ask one of my BM’s when I see her next month, would it be rude for her to get the STD before I’ve asked her to be a BM?
Post # 3
I think the sooner you send them the better. Then people can get it on the calendar. They’ll at least already know about the wedding plans when they see you so you don’t have to answer the same questions over and over (date and location, etc.). I don’t think it would be rude for your BMs to get a STD before you ask them. We didn’t ask any of ours until 8 months after the Save-The-Date Cards went out, and they didn’t seem to mind. It would be rude of her to assume she was going to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man.