(Closed) Save the Dates only for Out of Town Guests?

posted 7 years ago in Paper
  • poll: Save the Dates
    Everyone : (6 votes)
    33 %
    Out of Town Guests Only : (11 votes)
    61 %
    None at all! : (1 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    293 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    That’s how we did it too! 🙂

    Post # 4
    190 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    We sent our STDs to everyone, but only because I’m anal like that. I think it’s perfectly okay to send STDs to just OOT folks. However, keep in mind that a lot of people do not know what STDs are and will think they are invitations (despite not including important wedding info on them). Several of our guests kept refering to our STDs as our invites. I didn’t correct them, I just politely nodded. They’ll get the picture when they get the actual invite lol.

    Post # 6
    1030 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We had this debate too. We invited 120, 88 of whom are OOT, so then it seemed silly to “exclude” the remaining in-town folks… so we just ended up sending them to everyone.

    Post # 7
    10851 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We didn’t do STDs but sending them to OOT guests (and maybe friends who are known to be super forgetful, LOL!) seems like a great solution and would save you a couple bucks!

    Post # 8
    4137 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    i think that’s fine! i sent them to everyone just because i was really anxious to actually get something out after planning so long. my guest list is half oot and half local.

    Post # 9
    1361 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I honestly wasn’t going to do STDs, but our wedding date got moved (closer) so I needed to let everyone know.  However, I could not justify the cost when they will just get thrown out (probably faster than an invitation), and an invitation will follow in a couple months.  I did online STDs, that specifically said “Save the Date” and “please inform us of your address so we can send a formal invitation” and I still had people RSVP.  Not that it matters, I really don’t care, I just think STDs are “usually” interpretted as important because they are money makers, and guests really don’t care (or understand!).


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