(Closed) say what?!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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4313 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would just ask him to clarify what he meant by that, and reiterate that you really want to marry him.  Maybe he thought you were telling him what your cousin said as a reflection of how you feel.  I know my husband does that sometimes, takes things I say from other people as if I feel that way.

Post # 4
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6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I think you might be overanalyzing – he may just not want to put the pressure on you so him saying “i’m in no rush” kind of relieves that. I would let him know how you feel about getting engaged. He sounds like he is ready, and  you too so don’t let that little comment get in the way of having the conversation.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think you’re overthinking this. He probably just said it to calm your nerves about what your cousin said. If he said that he is going to propose then he will.

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