Saying I love you during sex!

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
6969 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Uhh we don’t really talk. So no it wouldn’t bother me, lol.

Post # 3
1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Kacey23:  He says it consistently, but I am just not a talker, so it actually snaps me a little out of my groove to respond.  My brain sort of shuts down and I’m very in the moment.  I know he loves me, and he knows I love him 🙂

Maybe your guy is the same way?  Just not a talker?

Post # 4
1244 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Kacey23:  If it comes out naturally in the moment then yes, but neither of us expects for the other to say it. Why is it that you need to hear it during sex for you to enjoy it? I would actually think requiring him to say it would kill some of the meaning and spontaneity behind it.

Post # 5
6789 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

We definitely don’t say it during sex. Instead there’s lots of  profanities being tossed around, lol. 

Post # 6
1901 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Kacey23:  No, not much romantic sex going on in our house! LOL if anything, we might say it afterwards if at all.

Post # 8
7216 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s so not a necessity. I mean once in blue fine, but I do need to hear it. No.

Post # 9
141 posts
Blushing bee

We only say it sometimes during sex, like when it’s special or we haven’t been intimate in longer than usual.

Post # 10
2474 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Uh… no, not really 😛 We’re too busy focusing on other things. And, if he does, it doesn’t mean anything different to me than when he says it when we’re not having sex. 

Post # 11
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We tend to during romantic sex, not so much during the dirty, naughty kind.

Post # 12
410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I say it quite often, FI does not. And, yeah, it bothers me a little, but not enough to make a thread over it.

Post # 13
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

FutureDrAtkins:  HAHA, saaaame! We say plenty of sweet things to each other with our clothes on, but once they come off… Yeahhh our words are less sweet, more spicy.

Post # 14
1029 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Kacey23:  ‘Clearing my throat…’ Childddd, saying ‘I love you’ is too decent for the things we say ‘n do during our time of the stuff we do.

Post # 15
4043 posts
Honey bee

Kacey23:  We will say things sometimes during sex, but I don’t think we have ever said “I love you” during sex. We usually reserve that for departures, saying good night and romantic moments (like dates). 

If you are that concerned about it and need to hear him say it, then just tell him about it. 

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