(Closed) Scared I won’t find “the” dress at my appointment.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
611 posts
Busy bee

Don’t stress about it or you won’t find anything! You need to do some research, online, magazines, weddingbee…and figure out what you want and what you think looks good on you! When you went to the other salons what did you like? What did you not like? Remember those things and you should be fine! Good luck!!!!!!

Post # 4
1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

The only suggestion I have is make a list of likes and don’t likes.  Hopefully this will help to move the appointment in a positive direction.  Good luck finding that perfect dress!

Post # 5
269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Since you’ve already tried some on, do you have an idea of what you like and don’t like yet?  I felt the same way and was starting to feel sooo bad about dragging my BM’s around trying on dresses.  Dress shopping is hard work!!  Plus you have way more time to choose than I did, so don’t stress and just enjoy all the pretty dresses you get to put on!

Post # 6
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Don’t be so stressed about it!  I know…easier said than done.  If you have a decent idea about what style you want, let the consultant know.  You can try a lot of gowns on in an hour and a half if you have a good consultant.  Sure, it would be nice to find it then and you MIGHT!  Try to enjoy the experience together regardless and whatever you do…DO NOT feel pressured to buy anything that you are not 100% sold on.  You will regret that more than if you have to keep looking for your dress.  Don’t worry – you will find it πŸ™‚  Have fun!

Post # 7
645 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You will be fine, don’t stress! You have tried on dresses before, so I am sure you have an idea of what you like and what looks good on you. Try to have fun with it and enjoy yourself.

Post # 10
467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

good luck today!  let us know how it goes!

Post # 12
112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

πŸ™  I’m sorry you didn’t have any luck!  Did you ever try on the Vanessa gown?  I think its gorgeous!!  And to be honest, your Fiance probably won’t remember which dress he said he didn’t like πŸ˜‰  If you love it, go for it!  He isn’t going to stop you half way down the isle and tell you to ditch the PJ’s!


My dress, I wasn’t even going to try it on.  I looked at it a few times on the rack, tried on others, and then said “Hey, lets try this one – just for giggles”.  Ended up only taking it off so I could buy it.  You never know!

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