Scared of walking down the aisle in front of everybody

posted 2 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Just focus on your beloved husband to be up there waiting for YOU.  Look at the love & pride in his eyes & everything else will melt away.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I hear ya! We are having a small ceremony (roughly 40 people) for a reason. But, I hope to just concentrate on my FI at the Gazebo stairs (outdoor wedding), and hope I don’t trip on my shoes!

I was really nervous walking down the aisle at the church during my Grandma’s funeral a few years ago… but just focused on getting where I needed to be and then I was fine. I am telling myself it’s almost the same thing, lol.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Sutts:  This is a VERY real concern for my FI.  I’m a ham, so I’m not worried about it 🙂  He’s very reserved and doesn’t like the spotlight so all the wedding formalities are like a nightmare to him.  

Like most stage fright, once you’re actually in the moment and doing it, those feelings will dissipate 🙂 I’ve told him that many times!!  

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Sutts:  i was just as nervous as you, and one good piece of advice given to me was NOT to look at DH bc I didn’t want to cry, and I am one ugly crier lol…so I just smiled and looked past everyone lol, and I caught a glimpse of DH at the end of the aisle and almost lost it, my heart skipped like 10 beats. 

When I finally got down to the end I was so happy, i didn’t even cry, I was just laughing the entire ceremony! And DH was so emotional, he was crying, and I was laughing!!! I kept telling DH, pls knw I am not laughing at you, I am just so happy and giddy! I was literally on cloud 9

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