Post # 1
I have been seeing a guy for a month and a half now and he is amazing! Since getting dumped 5 months ago I didn’t want anything to do with a guy but he dropped out of nowhere and looks after me so well already. I’ve told him I’m not ready to make anything ‘official’ until maybe another two months because I wanted to give myself enough time to get past the break up which I have (yay!) and didn’t want to look like I’m rebounding. However i am scared to make it official!! We kiss, cuddle, do coupley things etc but why am I so scared!?
I really don’t feel anything for my ex anymore, he wouldn’t stop calling even though I ignored his calls, he sent a nasty letter last week etc it’s been a rollercoaster and this new guy knows it all and has been supporting me through it.
Post # 2
Awww, I am SO happy for you. I remember reading your heartbreaking posts and thinking, what a monster your ex was for putting you through that. Just know that not all guys are like that…you may be feeling suspicious right now that it’s all too good to be true…but good guys do exist!! Take it slow, and he should understand why..you got out of a sticky relationship not that long ago…not much time has passed for you to fully heal yet…so just take it slow and it sounds like you got yourself a good one this time
Post # 4
AussieSummer: I would respond to the ex and tell him God does not look kindly upon nasty notes.
As for the new guy, of course you have reservations– your ex smashed your heart into a thousand pieces and then did a little jig on it. It is going to take some time to not feel completely vulnerable. If it feels right to continue dating this new fellow, I would proceed with caution. You don’t need a label before you’re ready for one. I feel like he’s going to have stronger feelings sooner than you will because you remember better than he does what’s at stake if the relationship fails. He on the other hand, hasn’t experienced that in 2 years, so he has less road blocks in the way. This is completely normal. Seems like he’s ok with all of that, too! It’s good you’ve found a patient partner.
Post # 3
He absolutley blows my mind but I feel like he likes me more than I like him, he said he is falling in love with me and that freaked me out when I should be flattered.
He has been single for 2 years.