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Disgusting. Reminds me of that "Personhood USA" crap...where, basically, the rights of the unborn fetus override the rights of the mother.
That is absolutely disgusting and horrifying. The hospital staff should be arrested, as well as the social workers and law enforcement personnel involved. I know this is an extreme case, and definitely not typical, but this is exactly why I am concerned about giving birth in a hospital.
@mrstilly:that was my friends thought too when she sent me this and so she googled pre-consent about c-sections and there are a lot more stories out there like this than you would expect! It's so scary and so horrible.
There is a lot more information in this article.
A few key points from this article:
EvaBoston, I was really alarmed by this so I Googled the story as well! It does seem like in this particular case, there was more to the story than just the C-section. Of course the courts are telling their side and the family is telling theirs so we can't know for sure what happened, but this does not seem like a case of C-section = losing the baby.
It still brings up some interesting questions about your rights. The reason they started the child welfare investigation was, in part, due to the C-section issue.
While is seems odd that this would happen, I'm glad EvaBoston commented. I was thinking there had to be more to this story. While I would hate to be forced into consenting to anything, I also realize that during labor I may not be in the right frame of mind to make a rational decision...therefore, I would have been happy there was a plan in place. Especially if my child (hate the word fetus) were in danger. I know everyone is different, but there is no way I am just going to sit by and say no to a procedure knowing full well it would put the baby in danger. You've heard of moms that will do anything for a child, give their life, etc....why should that start only after a child is born (assuming that you want the baby)?
Good detective work, EvaBostonTerrier! I know C-sections aren't ideal, but if my obgyn, whom i trust, says i need one, i'm getting one.
This is a really frustrating article. On one hand, you have the woman's right to choose what she will/won't do with her body. On the other hand, you have a doctor completing a psychiatric evaluation because they feel that this woman's choice was not the right one?
Regardless of whether or not this woman has psychiatric issues, the way that this situation was handled from the beginning is saddening.
@vanilla frosting - Yes, bioethics are very frustrating. For me, the question is whether it is ethical for medical staff to allow a pregnant woman in labor to cause severe life-long disabilities (or worse, death) of the fetus in her without trying to intervene? Yes, this case turned out fine (the baby was born healthy), but what it the situation had went the other way? Should medical personnel just let the baby die because a mother doesn't want treatment?
Here is some more information I found citing the New Jersey appellate court documents.
"[VM]...consented to the administration of intravenous fluids, antibiotics, oxygen, fetal heart rate monitoring, an episiotomy3 and an epidural anesthetic.
She refused to consent to any other invasive treatment, however, including a c-section or fetal scalp stimulation. Hospital personnel explained the potentially dire consequences of not allowing a c-section in the event of fetal distress, but V.M. remained adamant in her refusal.
In the hospital records, V.M. is described as "combative," "uncooperative," "erratic," "noncompliant," "irrational" and "inappropriate." She ordered the attending obstetrician, Dr. Shetal Mansuria, to leave the room and told her if she did not do what V.M. said, she would be off the case. V.M. then threatened to report the doctor to the police.
In fact, at one point V.M. did call the Livingston Police to report that she was being abused and denied treatment. She told a nurse that "no one is going to touch my baby." She continuously refused to wear the face mask that provided her with oxygen and also refused to remain still in order to allow for fetal heart monitoring. She thrashed about to the extent that it was unsafe for the anesthesiologist to administer an epidural. She would not allow Dr. Mansuria to touch the baby or perform an ultrasound examination.
Throughout this entire period, V.M. "was very boisterous and yelling and screaming at the top of her lungs." B.G. was present while all of these events occurred. Dr. Mansuria explained the complications, such as brain damage, mental retardation and fetal death, that could occur if the fetus went into distress and a c-section was not performed. She also explained that an examination revealed a "nonreassuring fetal status."
B.G. said that he understood the risks, but V.M. would not consent to the procedure. The hospital responded appropriately to confront V.M.'s mental state and her refusal to consent to the c-section. After considering V.M.'s "extreme behavior" and signs of developing fetal distress, the hospital staff requested an emergency psychiatric evaluation to determine V.M.'s competency.
While reading this article, I had the same feelings that there was way more to this story then just how it read. I think we can all pretty much agree that if it was JUST someone saying they'd prefer not to have a c-section and then the baby was taken away that that would be wrong, but obviously there was and is more to this story. I was happy to come back and read the comments and see that yes there actually was more. Thanks EvaBostonTerrier
I can't find the article now, but there was a pregnant woman in Florida whose doctor ordered her to go on bedrest for a very long time. She had a work situation that prevented it, so she refused. Her doctor went to a judge and got a court order forcing her to go on bedrest.
Interestingly, Sarah Palin loves to tell the story of how she was working in Texas when she went into labor and flew back to Alaska before going to a hospital. Interesting how some people have choices.
I was just about to post the same article that EvaBostonTerrier is refering too! There is definitely a lot more to this story than the first article would have you believe ....
Like KMM I was also going to present the same info that Eva did, but probably not nearly as well as she did! Hooray Eva!
I think Eva's article pretty clearly shows that we didn't get the whole story.
In terms of whether a mother has a right to refuse medical treatment that could save her baby's life... sorry I'm going to have to side with the doctors on this one. IF we lived in a nation where abortion was illegal then I would side with the mother saying that she's had no choice but to carry this baby to term and she shouldn't have to take any risks (like C-section) she isn't comfortable with to protect the baby. But that is not the case. Any woman who makes it that far along in pregnancy has CHOSEN to have that baby. And at that stage? I feel you've given up some of your rights in regards to how that child will be protected.
This just goes to show you have to look at all possible biases before you completely trust an article. I initially briefly read it, was disgusted, then noticed the site it was on "womensrights.change.org." Of course they're going to make it seem like women are victims, and we need change! I wouldn't have gone into as much in depth research as EvaBostonTerrier did but would have just written it of as extreme journalistic bias. Thanks for shedding even more light on this fact Eva!
Wow... definitely a more to it than the c-section.
for the record, I WANTED a c-section but had to go through trying a natural birth... ended up with a c-section anyway. (my insurance would've covered an optional c-section, and the office STILL refused my request.)
however, I did NOT have to pre-sign anything. Other than the usual papers for registration. (one red flag)
why wouldn't you sign a pre-consent form? it's to save the hospital from liability later. (second red flag)
soooo.... yeah, kinda figured there was more going on, then I read Eva's input. THAT made everything fall into place!!!!
gotta love the articles on the net these days, don't you???
I don't think I would sign a pre-consent form for a C-Section, assuming I entered the hospital with no complications or indications that a vaginal birth wouldn't be possible. However, that doesn't mean that if I, or my child, was suddenly in distress that I wouldn't agree within about 10 seconds to a C-Section or sign the form then. I don't want to refuse necessary medical treatment, but I don't want to have unecessary procedures done either, which I think happens somewhat frequently.
I am glad that there was more to the story, as the way the original link presented it was horrifying.I know that no case is really cut and dry, but in my oppinion a woman should have the right to refuse any medical treatment that she or her child are not dependent on for survival.
The extra info certainly helps clarify this case! I would however, probably also refuse to sign a pre-consent.
I work in NICU in Canada, so I attend high-risk deliveries, and right now the legal department is really concerned by the fact that we obtain consent for emergency c-sections immediately before going into the OR. The concern is that the patient is under duress when you reveal that the baby is in danger, therefore they aren't in the right frame of mind to consent to a c-section, and that they could come back and sue later.
They are considering using pre-consents because then you know that the patient was thinking relatively clearly when they sign, and it decreases legal liability.
@CorgiTales: I understand your POV, but I can tell you I wouldn't sign a pre-consent. Then again, I wouldn't give birth in a hospital that had a high track record of C-Section. But I have resources to make a choice like that. I certainly wouldn't refuse a C-Section that became necessary, but FAR too many hospitals take this approach as soon as there are any problems.
@Ms Mini: sooooo true!!! the duress part!!! With my son, my opinion was "whatever it takes to stop the pain!!!" and I have a HIGH threshold for pain!!!! First time mothers have NO idea what the pain MIGHT be like. (for the record, i had NO PAIN for my daughter... and NO that isn't a good thing because NO ONE thought I was in labor. Not even ME.)
pre-consent for a c-section is no different than pre-consent for anything else. blood transfusions, medicine, etc. you have to sign pre-consent forms for A LOT of things, so why not for a c-section????
here's another question to consider: you have the option to sign concent forms for your kids to recieve treatment if their injured is school... and, would you NOT sign those forms? and refuse to allow your child treatment if they are injured at school? MANY injuries can cause death or serious complications if not treated immediately. me? i sign them. better to be safe than sorry.
the bottom line is: which would be better? a c-section? or loosing your baby or allowing your baby to have serious medical problems later because of your refusal of a c-section?
@Zinzerena: I think you are missing the point here. We sign preconsent forms for emergency treatment and blood transfusions, but there isn't a minor epidemic going on right now of hospitals providing unnecessary and premature emergency treatment and blood tranfusions.
I don't think anyone on this board has stated that they would actually refuse a necessary C-section. What they have expressed is a deep concern about the fact that so many hospitals are performing C-sections too early and too often. If you would strongly prefer to make every safe effort to give vaginal birth, then giving the doctor the greenlight to override your preference doesn't make sense, especially if you are at a hospital with a reputaion of C-section at first sign of trouble track records.
The numbers on C-sections can be shocking. Some hospitals have C-section rates in the teens, some have an almost 50% rate of C-section. For hospitals specializing in difficult births that would make sense, but the numbers vary that much even among regular regional hospitals. I want my care based on my needs and preferences, not on a hospital's overly cautious (and sometimes profit driven) preference.
@monitajb: I prob wouldn't sign a pre-consent either if I could help it... my POV was only relating to an instance where a woman is told that she either has to have a c-section or there is a good chance her baby will die/be harmed. Once that point comes where the medical staff is pretty sure refusal will hurt a baby, I'm not sure refusal should be allowed.
@CorgiTales: Sorry, I misinterpreted your post, and on re-reading it, the mistake was entirely mine.
I'm no medical ethicist, so I'll leave that thorny issue to others!
@EvaBostonTerrier: You're cherry picking from the article like crazy. The piece to which you linked actually presents a compelling argument against the hospital's actions.
It's worth noting that the baby was fine. Delivered vaginally and with no complications.
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So my friend sent me this article today because of how horrible it is, for a complete lack of a womens right to not pre-consent to having a c-section.... I think this is horrible and show's no acknoledgement of the right's a woman, and her choices. She love her baby for 3 years, because she didn't want to pre-consent to a c-section, even though she still could have if any complications arose.
http://womensrights.change.org/blog/view/mother_loses_baby_for_three_years_due_to_refusing_c-section_pre-consent