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    jeninrva    12-6-08   Richmond, VA

    Hi all - I really like the simplicity and paper-saving format of seal-n-send invitations. However, I'm a little concerned they may be seen as cheap and/or tacky by the guests. Any thoughts or experiences with this?

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    Soon2BMC       OKC

    I think they are a great idea!! And one of the girls I work with got one in the mail for a friends wedding and thought it was the greatest thing ever because she could keep it all RIGHT there!! I agree!

     
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    litsecretary    08/08/08   Riverside, CA

    I love them too but when I asked about them, I was told to be careful as the machines at the post office may not like thme as much as we do and if they opened somehow, the contents may fall out.

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    corn    September 8, 2007   Boston, MA

    I am not sure I know what a 'seal-and-send' invitation is.  Any examples you can share?

     
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    suzanno    7/12/08   Richland, WA

    Mrs. Corn - I'm pretty sure those are the ones that are one long piece, with a detachable RSVP card - and you just fold them up, address the outside, seal with a sticker, and pop them in the mail.  No envelope.  That type is all one piece. 

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    There are also some with multiple parts, where the envelopment serves as the envelope - I haven't seen those called seal-and-sends, and I'm with litsecretary in wondering if they would make it through the machines without being damaged and maybe torn open, particularly if you're using a petal-fold type.

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    Jeninvra - I would think that whether they are appropriate would depend on the kind of wedding you are having.  It's an ecologically correct but kind of informal looking invitation.  If you're expecting your guests to wear black tie, maybe go with a more formal style in 100% cotton or paper made of recycled materials.  If you're having a pretty informal celebration, why not use them?  I actually ordered a couple of samples of seal-and-sends, but both my FI and my mom hated them with a passion, and then I was lured to the dark side by the fabulous sparkly pocketfolds.  I think if you like the seal-and-sends, and your family is a little more open-minded than mine, you should go for it.

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    suzanno    7/12/08   Richland, WA

    Actually I guess I should clarify - mom and FI hated the first kind.  The second kind they thought were okay, but also thought we would need to order envelopes for them.  Kind of defeats the purpose, I think, but solves the potential problem of them coming open in the mail.  Although the samples I ordered of the second kind the pocketfold was pretty stout; I'm not sure it would come apart in the mail.

     
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    ecochicbride    july 5, 2008   San Francisco

    I felt the same way about it looking too casual or cheap.  I was ready to purchase it on Naturally Ever After for my wedding but I preciously bought some DIY invites from Target that ended up turning out pretty cute!  But the seal n send is great b/c you save on paper and envelopes. It will definitely save on time and less stress for you.

     
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    skiv    10/4/08   Jacksonville, Florida

    I plan on ordering a few samples.  They seem like a great idea.

    http://www.sealandsend.net/sampleInvites.php#wed

     

     

     
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    corn    September 8, 2007   Boston, MA

    oooo...thanks for the clarification. 

     
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    crackhead    6/7/08   Kansas City, Missouri

    I actually bought those purple ones posted above and yes we have had MAJOR problems with them getting opened. We think it was because of the sorting machines at the post office. They really are beautiful but they really need more than just a little round sticker at the point to seal them really good. I've only heard of one person so far who have lost something that was inside but thankfully they weren't coming anyway (daughter is getting married same day). I'm really worried about the ones that are being mailed farther away though.

     
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    snmcdowell    9-13-08   Chicago

    My cousin sent these for his wedding. I didn't care for it, but I can see how it was a good way for them to save money, so in that respect I think they're a good option.

     
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    jeninrva    12-6-08   Richmond, VA

    Thank you all so much! Your inpout was really helpful ... I like the all-in-one strip style, but do have some trepidation. I think I'll keep looking and definitely order a sample!

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    hbowar    May 15th, 2009   San Jose, CA & MN

    I had a friend who used send n seal, but actually put them in envelopes so the enclosures would make it to the guest!  I've looked at them and am still undecided! 

     

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