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    Jizes318    November 19, 2010   Miami

    I have a guest list of 50-60 people. I am not sure if i should so do a seating chart.. To be honest I am going nuts over the idea. Who to sit with who etc. I dont want to sit people with people they may not want to... maybe since it's so small i can get away with not doing it? What do you ladies think?

     
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    I think you can get away with it.  We will have about 100 people and aren't doing one mainly because we have about 3 groups of people who don't get along so it's just too much to properly seperate them.  They need to be adults!!

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    I would say that as long as you reserve seating for immediate family...the rest of the guests can figure it out.

     
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    Br1tSh1n1ngStar    10/17/09   New Jersey

    My coordinator at the venue said that people want to have direction and a place to go. They don't want to have to "fight" for a seat. She also said not having a seating chart means that people sometimes move place settings around to suit where they want to sit.

    I say do one, but don't assign seats just assign tables.

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    We had a similarly-sized wedding without a seating chart.  We just reserved a couple tables for immediate family members, and everyone else got to choose where they wanted to sit.  My only suggestion is to have an extra table or an extra seat at each table over what you'll actually need.  That way, people won't have to fight for a seat or split up from their date/family in order to find seats together.

     
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    I think it's important to have a seating chart, even with your guest list size.  You don't want people wondering where they want to sit and making a big ordeal out of it.  I think they need some type of idea of where to go.

     
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    Mermaid1082    September 4, 2010   St Louis, MO

    I prefer having an assigned table when I go as a guest.  We'll be doing so as well.

     
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    allurex112    October 24, 2009   Live in NYC, Wedding in Philly

    I think you should have a seating chart, too, unless your reception is super casual / informal.

     
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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    I've only been to one wedding where there was no seating chart/table assignments and it was kind of a disaster. People were literally running for seats so they could sit with the people they wanted and avoid other people and it was kind of awkward.

     
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    lampshade127    March 27   Houston

    I like seating charts for the same reasons everyone mentioned above. I get nervous when we have to set out and find our own table, especially when we don't know anyone else.

     
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    Jizes318    November 19, 2010   Miami

    Thanks so much bees! Seating chart it is. It will be hard but i want everyone to be comfortable!!Wink

     

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